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Resentment of girlfriends decisions. Feel like i should break up but scared


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20 hours ago, MissCanuck said:

OP, she is clearly a copy of her mom. 

Could you imagine living with her mom forever? That's essentially what you'd be signing up for here. That's your future, because your girlfriend is just like Mom. 

I can't imagine living with her mum for ever no

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21 hours ago, redswim30 said:

Yikes.   That is at BEST an incredibly immature response and at worst, shows a complete lack of care and respect for you.  No offense intended, but your GF isn't ready for an adult relationship, she just wants someone to follow orders.  

You need to move out.  If that means a break up to her, then that's what it means.  This relationship is beyond unhealthy for you (her too, even if she doesn't realize it), and should not continue with you under her thumb.   Often times people can like or even love each other, but if you can't live together harmoniously without one of you needing to sacrifice all personal agency, then you are not compatible. 

This relationship has run its course.  Pack your bags. 

I mean we live together fine with no arguments etc its the decisions that pretty big have really started to drag me down into thinking this might not be what i want

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