Lexismith Posted June 4 Author Share Posted June 4 2 hours ago, yogacat said: He sounds ballsy. I think that unless he is your doctor and has specifics reasons to inquire about your sex life, it is none of his business. It is not okay for him to pressure or interrogate you about your sexual history, and his behavior is disrespectful and invasive. If he was just interested in hooking up and not having any further involvement, it was unnecessary for him to ask about your past sexual experiences. I mean, what if you asked the same thing back to him, would he have told you the truth? The fact that he continued to ask and then didn't believe you when you said no is a red flag. Tell him to buzzer off. Or, put a ring on it! 😉 Why do you think he was acting that way ? Link to comment
Jaunty Posted June 4 Share Posted June 4 6 minutes ago, Lexismith said: Why do you think he was acting that way ? Why do you think you ask the exact same questions in all of your threads? Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted June 4 Share Posted June 4 1 hour ago, Lexismith said: Why do you think he was acting that way ? I am going to take a wild guess and assume you want us to tell you that he likes you. Your threads are all the same. 1 Link to comment
yogacat Posted June 4 Share Posted June 4 5 hours ago, Lexismith said: Why do you think he was acting that way ? If this is the same man from your other thread, I am afraid my dear, that he is a Crumb Investment guy. Like, you refuse to break up with him, you refuse to block him, you refuse to stop "arguing" things to no end... block his number and raise your standards. He didn't do anything like directly mean to you but he is super, clear as the sheet on my bed. You're allowing him to come back whenever he wants and pretend that he cares by asking if you're seeing anyone yet. Please stop falling for this tactic. He's treating you like a disposable person... and you seem to only allow him to see you in that light as well. You are not a washcloth, cookies from Trader Joe's or a guest towel. 1 Link to comment
catfeeder Posted June 4 Share Posted June 4 This is like asking a bunch of strangers why the guy is a bully. Bad childhood maybe? The better question is why would you put up with it? 2 Link to comment
Lexismith Posted June 11 Author Share Posted June 11 On 6/3/2024 at 7:21 PM, yogacat said: He sounds ballsy. I think that unless he is your doctor and has specifics reasons to inquire about your sex life, it is none of his business. It is not okay for him to pressure or interrogate you about your sexual history, and his behavior is disrespectful and invasive. If he was just interested in hooking up and not having any further involvement, it was unnecessary for him to ask about your past sexual experiences. I mean, what if you asked the same thing back to him, would he have told you the truth? The fact that he continued to ask and then didn't believe you when you said no is a red flag. Tell him to buzzer off. Or, put a ring on it! 😉 Yup he claimed I can ask him about what he’s been doing etc…. I told him I didn’t care Link to comment
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