How do I handle mixed signals and flaky plans?

[greendots]

On 5/28/2024 at 5:20 AM, Batya33 said:

Same -also if I had to teach an adult basic manners or why it was disrespectful to cancel last minute/show up very late without an emergency -  that was a dealbreaker for dating with potential for a serious relationship and if it was someone I was getting to know as a friend I then had boundaries as far as not risking my sparse free time making plans again to meet in person - I'd limit it to a group situation, a situation where I had to be there anyway, etc.

Ditto. Unless it's an emergency, you don't merely cancel plans last minute It's very disrespectful.