Q: Meeting for coffee in a couple of weeks, should I start texting her now?

[lostandhurt]

17 hours ago, Sam.Bl said:

I had the mindset of not really caring about failing when I spoke to her and I came across really well because there was no anxiety. I would like to hold on to that mentality

PERFECT!!!

It is only coffee not heart surgery so keep that whatever happens happens mentality.  Everyone would like to know if it will work out or how it will go in advance but that simply is an unknown.  Having control over any situation makes us feel like we are in control when we only can control what we do and say.

You be you and let her see that.  After all she will need to be interested in your authentic self but the best possible version.

  This coffee meet isn't the only thing going on in your  life so treat it as just another small piece of your life.

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