I feel jelous of my bf mom

[moissanitr]

He often insults me when he drinks. He is talking nonsense, completely baseless nonsense. He is often obnoxious and confrontational, but only when he is drunk.

[MissCanuck]

Being drunk is no excuse to be a verbally abusive bully. 

I think you are displacing your sadness at his lack of respect for you onto his mom, whom he seems to adore and wouldn't speak to the way he speaks to you. 

The problem isn't his mom. The problem is your jerk of a boyfriend. 

[Wiseman2]

27 minutes ago, moissanitr said:

He often insults me when he drinks. He is talking nonsense, completely baseless nonsense. He is often obnoxious and confrontational, but only when he is drunk.

Are you close to your family and friends? If you live together, it's time to move out. He is abusive and a problem drinker. His mother is not the problem.

[boltnrun]

6 hours ago, moissanitr said:

Now she has a new boyfriend,

 

6 hours ago, moissanitr said:

nd always the conversations turn to her and her things: house, work, husband.

She has a boyfriend AND a husband?  That's some family there.