leahm939 Posted March 2, 2023 Share Posted March 2, 2023 I'm really sad it's ended but mostly relieved. In the beginning he called me a coward for not wanting to give him a chance. But I did and now it's ended badly. The last week or so he's been really quiet and started to ask me if I'm okay all the time and then came out with am I breaking up with him? He said it's because I've been distant and have ignored him but we're always together. He never gives me any privacy and he leaves a mess in every room. I told him I am unwell and exhausted, I even have it on my medical records which I told him about I was diagnosed with something but this wasn't good enough for him. I'm still not doing enough for him because I don't ask how work was? He was criticising everything I said. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jibralta Posted March 2, 2023 Share Posted March 2, 2023 Maybe you should just stop talking to him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaunty Posted March 2, 2023 Share Posted March 2, 2023 Is this a stream of consciousness or do you have a question? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissCanuck Posted March 2, 2023 Share Posted March 2, 2023 Just be done with him. It's clearly not working. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwothe28 Posted March 2, 2023 Share Posted March 2, 2023 What do you mean "manipulating you"? - You are a coward for not wanting to date me! - No, I am not the coward, I will date you! I mean, even if it is manipulation who would be that vain to fall for that? Its just dumb. You can say that he is "needy". And that is never a good thing. But according to you 7 hours ago, leahm939 said: I'm really sad it's ended but mostly relieved. somebody already broke up. So what is the issue here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted March 2, 2023 Share Posted March 2, 2023 9 hours ago, leahm939 said: I'm really sad it's ended but mostly relieved.. He never gives me any privacy and he leaves a mess in every room. Sorry this is happening. How long have you been together? Do you live together? It seems like you dodged a bullet if he's causing stress for you. Have you broken up? Focus on talking care of yourself and your physical and mental health. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leahm939 Posted March 2, 2023 Author Share Posted March 2, 2023 We were only together for 6 months and doesn't live with me. He wants me to think about whether I want him back. He's given me 4 days to think about it and if I don't want to work it out then he'll pick up his stuff. I just stopped wanting him now. He kept calling me and I wanted to be left alone. Everything he did was irritating me. He said he is sorry. But I don't know if I should if he keeps making a deal out of me not giving him enough attention. And he annoys me mostly. I have loved someone before but this doesn't feel like that strong love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batya33 Posted March 2, 2023 Share Posted March 2, 2023 8 minutes ago, leahm939 said: We were only together for 6 months and doesn't live with me. He wants me to think about whether I want him back. He's given me 4 days to think about it and if I don't want to work it out then he'll pick up his stuff. I just stopped wanting him now. He kept calling me and I wanted to be left alone. Everything he did was irritating me. He said he is sorry. But I don't know if I should if he keeps making a deal out of me not giving him enough attention. And he annoys me mostly. I have loved someone before but this doesn't feel like that strong love. You don’t even need 4 minutes. Why in the world would you try to convince yourself to be with someone you’re not interested in romantically and don’t even like much ?? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaunty Posted March 2, 2023 Share Posted March 2, 2023 It sounds like a miserable relationship for you and probably him as well. Be free! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cherylyn Posted March 2, 2023 Share Posted March 2, 2023 7 hours ago, leahm939 said: We were only together for 6 months and doesn't live with me. He wants me to think about whether I want him back. He's given me 4 days to think about it and if I don't want to work it out then he'll pick up his stuff. I just stopped wanting him now. He kept calling me and I wanted to be left alone. Everything he did was irritating me. He said he is sorry. But I don't know if I should if he keeps making a deal out of me not giving him enough attention. And he annoys me mostly. I have loved someone before but this doesn't feel like that strong love. Request that he pick up his stuff. When you see him in person, tell him that it's time to go your separate ways and wish him all the best. Request NC (no contact) permanently. Then part ways peacefully. Don't explain. If he's relentless, block and delete him permanently. Move on. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catfeeder Posted March 3, 2023 Share Posted March 3, 2023 I'd put his stuff in a box and mail it. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrina Posted March 3, 2023 Share Posted March 3, 2023 10 hours ago, catfeeder said: 'd put his stuff in a box and mail it. Yes, he sounds unhinged. I wouldn't allow him into your place ever again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jacongeller Posted March 28, 2023 Share Posted March 28, 2023 I recently had an experience with a person who was manipulating me in a very subtle way. At first, I didn't realize what was happening, but eventually I began to recognize the signs. This person would use guilt and emotional manipulation to get me to do what they wanted. They would also make me feel like I was wrong or bad if I didn't comply with their requests. I felt like my autonomy was being taken away and it was a very uncomfortable situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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