Discuss with him or leave it

[sweetlady]

On 11/10/2022 at 1:18 PM, Andrina said:

What kind of father is he to his daughter? How far apart do they live from one another? How often does he speak to her on the phone and see her?

She live in another country.

But he does talk to her a lot on phone.

[sweetlady]

On 11/10/2022 at 2:47 PM, Lambert said:

I just wanted to say,  I think you should only talk to your partner about things in your relationship. Involving a third person (your sister in law) is not a healthy practice.

Yes and we have other issues ourselves.

[boltnrun]

3 hours ago, sweetlady said:

Yes and we have other issues ourselves.

Yes, I read your other thread.  You two are both involved with outside parties.

I can't see how this relationship is healthy enough to withstand being together as a couple and being parents together.  Separating and co-parenting seems like a good option.

[sweetlady]

3 hours ago, boltnrun said:

Yes, I read your other thread.  You two are both involved with outside parties.

I can't see how this relationship is healthy enough to withstand being together as a couple and being parents together.  Separating and co-parenting seems like a good option.

We do get on and everything and we have got closer since I fell pregnant we was worse before.

It's just I don't bring up the female friends stuff and don't really pay too much attention to certain things. You could say I overlook it rather than address.

My problem is I don't think he loves me and never have.

It's we more friends living together and just have a sex here and there.

We are just talking now. Lately I can't say he hasn't been good.

[boltnrun]

37 minutes ago, sweetlady said:

we have got closer since I fell pregnant

 

37 minutes ago, sweetlady said:

I don't think he loves me and never have.

These two statements are contradictory.

[sweetlady]

3 hours ago, boltnrun said:

 

These two statements are contradictory.

That's why while we had our issues not sure if it's me now that just can't let go. 

This thing that came up with his ex left it a lone.

Things just keep changing so I am confused. I keep expecting us to end but sometimes things are good. We don't really argue like we use too.

Then again have got into everything. 

Just going to see now and relax myself not stress until baby born.