Post costal dysphoria

[Wiseman2]

5 hours ago, Kansasbbq10 said:

we have our toxic arguments

Those should not be happening anywhere at any time. You know this, but as you stated, you get turned on by toxic garbage men. Just keep this creep away from your daughter. She doesn't have a choice in this. You're the adult here.

[Kansasbbq10]

4 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Those should not be happening anywhere at any time. You know this, but as you stated, you get turned on by toxic garbage men. Just keep this creep away from your daughter. She doesn't have a choice in this. You're the adult here.

He doesn’t act creepy to her. I would think it worse if he didn’t ask to see her (because I certainly never bring it up) and just acted like she didn’t exist

[MissCanuck]

5 hours ago, Kansasbbq10 said:

He doesn’t act creepy to her. 

That doesn't matter. 

He is a creepy person in general. Children need their parents to keep people like him out of their lives. Your daughter needs a mom who models healthy relationships skills and sound judgement. 

[Batya33]

10 hours ago, MissCanuck said:

That doesn't matter. 

He is a creepy person in general. Children need their parents to keep people like him out of their lives. Your daughter needs a mom who models healthy relationships skills and sound judgement. 

There's no reason for someone you are not seriously dating with a high chance of engagement/marriage, etc to get to meet your daughter other than by accident.  He can't date you or get serious with you as he is a married person.