Incognita12 Posted December 17, 2021 Share Posted December 17, 2021 So I'm interested in this girl (never spoken to her or seen her in real life) and she is the best friend of a female friend of mine. I asked her about her, how she is like and if she is single. But it seems like she is talking to a guy. What do I do from here? Do i still ask her out, wait, forget her and move on? For the info im 22 and shes 19/20 Thanks for reading and replying in advance Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boltnrun Posted December 17, 2021 Share Posted December 17, 2021 How are you interested in someone you've never seen or spoken to? Have you just seen a picture of her? And how would you ask someone out you've never even met? Are you thinking you're going to "add" her on Instagram or something? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Incognita12 Posted December 17, 2021 Author Share Posted December 17, 2021 4 minutes ago, boltnrun said: How are you interested in someone you've never seen or spoken to? Have you just seen a picture of her? And how would you ask someone out you've never even met? Are you thinking you're going to "add" her on Instagram or something? Intrested in like wanting to know her. Yes i was thinking just asking my friend to help or just add her on instagram and talk to her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Mosse Posted December 17, 2021 Share Posted December 17, 2021 Introduce yourself and ask her out to coffee. Keep it short and uncomplicated. I think you’re overthinking this. Have absolutely no doubt that she’ll do her homework on you and speak with this mutual friend. Expect that she will have a mind of her own. You don’t need to control everything. If she doesn’t want to meet with you respect that and move on. If she does, who knows? Keep an open mind. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted December 17, 2021 Share Posted December 17, 2021 5 hours ago, Incognita12 said: I'm interested in this girl never spoken to her or seen her in real life. it seems like she is talking to a guy. Ok. 2 things. 1. You don't know her, have never seen her in real life so are interested in pics. 2. Your friend informed you she's talking to someone. Another thing to consider is if this female friend is just a friend or wants more. What to do from here? Get a good profile and pics on quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting real life women for a low-key coffee ☕. Get involved in groups, clubs, sports and fitness, volunteer and round out your real life so you can meet and talk to women. In real life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Kwothe28 Posted December 17, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted December 17, 2021 5 hours ago, Incognita12 said: But it seems like she is talking to a guy. They always talk to somebody. Even when they are talking to you. That shouldnt discourage you to at least introduce yourself and try to get to know her better. Why dont you ask that friend of yours to introduce you? To call her friend and you all hang around for a coffee. That way you can talk, you can add her on social networks later and talk more in private. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smackie9 Posted December 17, 2021 Share Posted December 17, 2021 Your friend was sending you a message but it went right over your head. She told you her friend is talking to another guy...that's code for don't waste your time. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boltnrun Posted December 17, 2021 Share Posted December 17, 2021 What is it you find "interesting" about her? You've never met in person, so is it her appearance? She's very pretty or something? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostandhurt Posted December 18, 2021 Share Posted December 18, 2021 Go for it. Ask your friend to make the introductions and see what happens. Talking to some guy is not dating some guy so don't let that stop you. What are friends for anyways if they cannot help a guy out Lost 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catfeeder Posted December 18, 2021 Share Posted December 18, 2021 Why ask us, when you can just ask your friend if she'd be willing to introduce you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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