Fonaloma Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 welll...i met him in my first year in high school, we start talking i found him really different and i liked him after while he asked me for date but i sid no for some reason , day out day in we bacame friends , ofc he get lil ad after i rejected him but , somehow we stay friends , anyways , our second year i start have feeling for him , i mean he bacame more than friend to me , i fell for him , i told him , he get schoked , he said that it's better staying friends but i didn't want that i wanted to fix him to make him feel better ,he is always lonely and depressed excepte with me , so i said i'm leaving cuz i wanted more , then he said let's date so not to loose me , we date for while then we stopped , he said he's not really really want that , i ghosted him for about 3 or 4 months , he begged me to come back , i was confused , but i spend all that period ( 4 months) healing from my first heart_break , after that i decide to talk to him again ,than i knew that he was scare to be broken again , cuz his past was too dark , he lost his dad and his ex broke him and a lot of thing , we start talking again and we became better than anytime , but we never talked about the nature of our relationship , all i know is kinda change not too much but i felt something like he don't wanna loose and he start caring a lot , anyways ,this our last together and i don't know if we finished our study should we keep staying friend which i don't want to , or it's time to say goodbye.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 2 minutes ago, Katty said: this our last together and i don't know if we finished our study should we keep staying friend which i don't want to Don't stay friends. Set yourself free from all this confusion. Date local boys who will stay interested in you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fonaloma Posted December 16, 2021 Author Share Posted December 16, 2021 that's gonna be hard , he didn't want to start dating any girls he said i'm enought:( that wut made me confused Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrina Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 On again /off again means it's clear the relationship isn't the right one for you. You're a place holder until someone shiny and new comes along and puts up with his "brokenness." Don't allow yourself to be used like this. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capricorn3 Posted December 16, 2021 Share Posted December 16, 2021 OP, please use proper grammar. Refer to ENA Rules/Guidelines # 6. Thanks. "Please post in letter style. Use paragraphs, punctuation, and capital letters appropriately. Netspeak and shortcutting (b4, str8, etc) are difficult to read and not permitted in posts." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catfeeder Posted December 18, 2021 Share Posted December 18, 2021 Don't you envision yourself with someone who 'get's you'? Look up the word 'simpatico'. Hold out for that with someone, and you will thank yourself. This guy is not HIM. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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