Seraphim Posted November 29, 2021 Share Posted November 29, 2021 My Beloved Step Father passed away. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamurj Posted November 29, 2021 Share Posted November 29, 2021 I am very sorry for your loss Seraphim. God bless his soul. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batya33 Posted November 29, 2021 Share Posted November 29, 2021 I am so very sorry for your and your family's loss. May his memory be for a blessing. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kwothe28 Posted November 29, 2021 Share Posted November 29, 2021 My condolences to you and your family Seraphim. May he rest in peace. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boltnrun Posted November 29, 2021 Share Posted November 29, 2021 I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure your family will be a source of comfort during this difficult time. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jibralta Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 I am so sorry. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 Sorry to hear, Vic. Hold your memories close, and may he RIP. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catfeeder Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 Oh, honey. I'm so sorry. ((((Holding you in my heart.))))) Cat 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SherrySher Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 Sending condolences ❤️ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cherylyn Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 I'm sorry, (((Seraphim))). May your stepdad RIP (rest in peace). 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rose Mosse Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 I am so sorry to hear this. Keeping you all in my thoughts. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capricorn3 Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 My condolences to you and your family Vic. May he rest in peace. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
limichelle Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 I’m so sorry! Many hugs!! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fudgie Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 I am so sorry! I'll be keeping you and your family in my thoughts. So sad that this is all close to the holidays! May your family band together and find peace and comfort. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Seraphim Posted November 30, 2021 Author Popular Post Share Posted November 30, 2021 Thank you everyone. My step father was the kindest greatest man. I am with my mom and we are starting funeral arrangements now. His 82nd birthday would have been December 16th. The doctor said his chest X-ray was clear of pneumonia yesterday but his heart was just too weak to continue. Yesterday at 3 they intubated him because even full oxygen with a face mask wasn’t enough, then his heart stopped 3 times and 3 times they brought him back. The doctor my mom the third time because it took so long to restart his heart that time he was most likely brain dead my mom decided to let him go. He spent his last moments with my mom who he loved the most in the world. The love of his life. He was the most kind and generous man who took in my brother and I as his own despite having three children of his own from his first marriage. His first wife died 33 years ago . He took us as his own even though we were adults at the time . He was a true blessing to our lives and was a loving doting grandfather to our children. My son was his star in the heavens. I feel so badly for my mother who has outlived 2 husbands now and my son who has lost all his grandfathers in the space of 16 months. My step dad was his major father figure when his dad was away from the time he was 8 until he was 15. Him and my step dad had an unbreakable bond from the day he was born. I love you with all my heart , Papa. 5 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coily Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 My deepest condolences to you; he sounds like such an amazing guy! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostandhurt Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 What a wonderful selfless man. The loss of such a grand soul from all your lives has to be crushing but from what you have written he made a huge impact on all your lives and those memories cannot be taken away. It sounds like he lived a good life full of love and happiness. Condolences to you and everyone that knew him. Lost 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seraphim Posted November 30, 2021 Author Share Posted November 30, 2021 My heart hurts so bad . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DancingFool Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 I'm so sorry and my deepest condolences to you and your family. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maritalbliss86 Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 I'm so sorry, Seraphim 😞 keeping you in my prayers. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsallgrand Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 I'm so sorry for your loss. ❤️ That's so beautiful what you wrote about him. He leaves a legacy of genuine love and kindness and a great big open heart. Sending you so much love. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seraphim Posted November 30, 2021 Author Share Posted November 30, 2021 1 hour ago, itsallgrand said: I'm so sorry for your loss. ❤️ That's so beautiful what you wrote about him. He leaves a legacy of genuine love and kindness and a great big open heart. Sending you so much love. He genuinely had the kindest heart and he was a great man loved by many. My mom and I just sit here and stare off into space and randomly start to cry. It is so shocking and devastating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greendots Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 I'm so sorry, Seraphim. Thinking of you xx 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mylolita Posted December 1, 2021 Share Posted December 1, 2021 My condolences Seraphim - nothing anyone can say can make this better. I am not religious, but I have come to think the people we loved, when they go, they are still with us, just in a different form - whether that be memories you hold dear or other beliefs you may have. Try and be kind to yourself in this moment and get rest where you can. I don’t think grief ever gets easier but, you slowly become accustomed to having it there and you find a way to live alongside it, as I think you have experienced before. All the best, good things still to come, Lo x 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seraphim Posted December 1, 2021 Author Share Posted December 1, 2021 My step dad’s funeral is Saturday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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