boltnrun Posted March 21, 2020 Share Posted March 21, 2020 She cancelled plans we had yesterday because of personal reasons but never rescheduled. She then stopped replying to my texts last night but still looks at my stories? Is your area not practicing social distancing due to the coronavirus? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bro32 Posted March 21, 2020 Author Share Posted March 21, 2020 How many days am I supposed to wait for a reply? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissCanuck Posted March 21, 2020 Share Posted March 21, 2020 How many days am I supposed to wait for a reply? Zero days. You're not a priority to her. You need to let this one go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bro32 Posted March 22, 2020 Author Share Posted March 22, 2020 Sucks but it’s the truth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bro32 Posted March 22, 2020 Author Share Posted March 22, 2020 Zero days. You're not a priority to her. You need to let this one go. It sure feels like I’m not! Everything escalated so quickly! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caligrl Posted March 22, 2020 Share Posted March 22, 2020 I have been seeing a girl from work for about a month now. Everything was perfect for the first 3 weeks! We were going out, she was staying over, etc! Then through a friend her ex found out that she was seeing me and blew her up and it made her feel real uncomfortable to the point where she started feeling pressured to be with me. To make matters worse work found out that we were seeing each other and it made her even more pressured. I know I have a major part in this but she says that she doesn’t feel pressured by me just be the outside world like work, my friends, ex’s family! She said she loves my friends by she is not ready for us to be labeled by them. I met up with her yesterday and I apologized for letting it leak out to the office and she looked okay and we kissed and she smiled and waved by. She said she wished her lunch was longer so we could keep talking. We are supposed to be hanging out this weekend but there are no concrete plans yet. Since seeing her I have backed off and I stopped texting her. What can I do to keep this alive? How long has she been out of that relationship? Do they have kids together? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boltnrun Posted March 22, 2020 Share Posted March 22, 2020 How long has she been out of that relationship? Do they have kids together? This is what he wrote: "She started seeing me the day after she left him 😅 " Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bro32 Posted March 24, 2020 Author Share Posted March 24, 2020 I see her at work and she and I act like everything is cool! She does seem annoyed by me though! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boltnrun Posted March 24, 2020 Share Posted March 24, 2020 Then just keep working. She is not as serious about you as you are about her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bro32 Posted March 24, 2020 Author Share Posted March 24, 2020 Do you think if I stopped chasing I have a chance later on? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boltnrun Posted March 24, 2020 Share Posted March 24, 2020 Do you think if I stopped chasing I have a chance later on? A chance for what? To be one of many? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bro32 Posted March 24, 2020 Author Share Posted March 24, 2020 Lmao I give up! Nothing should be this hard! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissCanuck Posted March 25, 2020 Share Posted March 25, 2020 She was never a good candidate to begin with, OP. You placed your eggs in the wrong basket there. Don't bother with women who have just barely broken up with someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatwasThen Posted March 28, 2020 Share Posted March 28, 2020 What can I do to keep this alive? Ignore her and see if she pursues. If she doesn't then the no contact will help you to get over her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RicBoy Posted March 28, 2020 Share Posted March 28, 2020 I only read 2 lines of your story to know the answer. 1- you are a rebound 2- 1 month in a relationship, you should be seeing her once a week only. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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