Guest StarflowerM4 Posted January 5, 2020 Share Posted January 5, 2020 Hi, I have recently met someone who is int the BDSM. I have no experience in this, I am interested, I would be his sub. Am I allowed other relationships, or will I just be with him. I have done lots of reading, but not sure what to expect, what am I to do, say. Iam on a couple of dating apps, am I still allowed to use them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted January 5, 2020 Share Posted January 5, 2020 Have you tried sites that are focused on this relationship style?I have recently met someone who is int the BDSM. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest StarflowerM4 Posted January 5, 2020 Share Posted January 5, 2020 Yes, I have looked at lots and done lots of reading. But got so many questions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pippy longstocking Posted January 6, 2020 Share Posted January 6, 2020 Every dom expects something different , so don't try and prepare yourself too much ....and have a good think about how far you want to go ..I know subs that control everything down the what the person wears during the day and I know subs who only sub in the bedroom . He needs to tell you because no one can second guess how much of a dom he wants to play this . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest StarflowerM4 Posted January 6, 2020 Share Posted January 6, 2020 Thank you for your reply Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pippy longstocking Posted January 6, 2020 Share Posted January 6, 2020 Every dom expects something different , so don't try and prepare yourself too much ....and have a good think about how far you want to go ..I know subs that control everything down the what the person wears during the day and I know subs who only sub in the bedroom . He needs to tell you because no one can second guess how much of a dom he wants to play this . I meant dom were I wrote sub ...sorry , it was late . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dias Posted January 6, 2020 Share Posted January 6, 2020 Every dom expects something different , so don't try and prepare yourself too much ....and have a good think about how far you want to go ..I know subs that control everything down the what the person wears during the day and I know subs who only sub in the bedroom . He needs to tell you because no one can second guess how much of a dom he wants to play this . You seem to know a little bit too much pippy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pippy longstocking Posted January 6, 2020 Share Posted January 6, 2020 You seem to know a little bit too much pippy! hahaha well this isn't my first rodeo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatwasThen Posted January 6, 2020 Share Posted January 6, 2020 Hi, I have recently met someone who is int the BDSM. I have no experience in this, I am interested, I would be his sub. Am I allowed other relationships, or will I just be with him. I have done lots of reading, but not sure what to expect, what am I to do, say. Iam on a couple of dating apps, am I still allowed to use them. Why are you asking us? Why not ask him what his rules are and then you can decide if you are on board with what he demands. If you aren't then you can just not see him again. Just because you want to be his sub doesn't mean you should also be his fool. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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