maciePhan Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 So my bf and I had oral sex yesterday. We're both 19 and we're not ready for pregnancy yet. I gave him a BJ and HJ, I sucked his "thing" for 15 mins and we started kissing, after that he fingered me and sucking his fingers. Plus i don't allow him to get down on me (Like his mouth touch my vagina) . I still wore my underwear. I'm wondering if his sperm or semens are still alive in my mouth. (He didn't ejaculate into my mouth, I just gave him BJ), he ejaculated after kissing and fingering. Could I get pregnant from this? Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yatsue Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 How?? No way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seraphim Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 Nope. Not possible. Please get some birth control. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maciePhan Posted February 4, 2019 Author Share Posted February 4, 2019 because sperm or semen could survive in mouth for up to 2 days (moist enviroment). so when i was sucking his thing. probably semen is still in my mouth. i told my bf it's gonna be okay. but he had an anxiety attack so I need to make sure that everything is fine and i can not get pregnant from this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maciePhan Posted February 4, 2019 Author Share Posted February 4, 2019 He fingered me and sucked his fingers and fingered me back. that's what we're scared of cause semen could transfer to his fingers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seraphim Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 They don’t go through underwear and they don’t live in your mouth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frustrated1 Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 I think you both need to find some material on sex education before engaging any further... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seraphim Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 Yes , please talk to your dr about sexual information. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maciePhan Posted February 4, 2019 Author Share Posted February 4, 2019 Yes we do know they don't go through underwear. we also researched about how long sperm would survive in my mouth (saliva) on google. Anyway, Thank you for your advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maciePhan Posted February 4, 2019 Author Share Posted February 4, 2019 Yes, Thank you for your advice. We do read and research about sexual things to build up our sex education. The thing here is he has an anxiety attack about this and it makes me even worrier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seraphim Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 Google has misinformation too you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katrina1980 Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 I sucked his "thing" for 15 mins ... You're allowed to say "penis" dear. It's not a dirty word. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 No but you can get plenty of STDs from that. Get to a clinic for sex education and Use Condoms. Read up on it with this link: Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)We're both 19 and we're not ready for pregnancy yet. I Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostandhurt Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 No you cannot get pregnant that way. There are plenty of sites that have verified information on STD's, birth control, contraception and myth busting. Both of you should educate yourselves please. Also there is a clinic in your area that has tons of brochures and classes I am sure. Lost Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maew Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 No but you can get plenty of STDs from that. Get to a clinic for sex education and Use Condoms. Read up on it with this link: Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) Also OP... are you not on birth control? If not you absolutely should be if you want to avoid getting pregnant. Clearly you are committed to the idea of sexual activity with this person so you need to take some personal responsibility for your choices. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maciePhan Posted February 4, 2019 Author Share Posted February 4, 2019 haha Well but all you guys know what the "thing" is, so.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maciePhan Posted February 4, 2019 Author Share Posted February 4, 2019 Also OP... are you not on birth control? If not you absolutely should be if you want to avoid getting pregnant. Clearly you are committed to the idea of sexual activity with this person so you need to take some personal responsibility for your choices. I'm not on birth control cause we decided to not having sex until marriage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maciePhan Posted February 4, 2019 Author Share Posted February 4, 2019 No you cannot get pregnant that way. There are plenty of sites that have verified information on STD's, birth control, contraception and myth busting. Both of you should educate yourselves please. Also there is a clinic in your area that has tons of brochures and classes I am sure. Lost Yes We're learning stuffs now, so there is something we still dont know yet. Thank you very much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 Here's some cool pics of what his "thing" can put in your mouth: https://www.mouthhealthy.org/en/az-topics/s/sexually-transmitted-diseaseshaha Well but all you guys know what the "thing" is, so.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mustlovedogs Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 If you’re too uncomfortable to say the word “penis” maybe you shouldn’t be touching one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maew Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 I'm not on birth control cause we decided to not having sex until marriage. Oral sex and hand jobs are forms of sex. You guys are deluding yourselves. Once you start any form of sexual activity it's very easy to get caught up in the moment where his penis could end in your vagina and this COULD lead to pregnancy, depending on your time of the month, even if he doesn't fully ejaculate. Please follow the others advice on here and make sure you educate and protect yourselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maciePhan Posted February 4, 2019 Author Share Posted February 4, 2019 Here's some cool pics of what his "thing" can put in your mouth: https://www.mouthhealthy.org/en/az-topics/s/sexually-transmitted-diseases omg that scares me fr Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maciePhan Posted February 4, 2019 Author Share Posted February 4, 2019 If you’re too uncomfortable to say the word “penis” maybe you shouldn’t be touching one. i'm not uncomfortable to say that word. I just mean that y'all know what I'm talking about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maciePhan Posted February 4, 2019 Author Share Posted February 4, 2019 Oral sex and hand jobs are forms of sex. You guys are deluding yourselves. Once you start any form of sexual activity it's very easy to get caught up in the moment where his penis could end in your vagina and this COULD lead to pregnancy, depending on your time of the month, even if he doesn't fully ejaculate. Please follow the others advice on here and make sure you educate and protect yourselves. Thank you for your enthusiasm. I appreciate that. we will be more careful Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisisrichey Posted February 4, 2019 Share Posted February 4, 2019 Sperm typically die when exposed to oxygen (or quickly do so). so the chances are not very likely. BUT YOU CAN NEVER BE TOO SAFE so I would highly recommend being protected at all times (condom especially, but you can supplement that with a diaphram, pill, etc.) Also. realize that the WORST THING that can happen to you is not pregnancy - but contracting a fatal or terminal disease. (All it takes is for your partner to have had unprotected sex 1X with somebody other than you who is carrying a virus or who has a terminal disease - and now you have it). So PROTECT YOURSELF. And even if the chances are "not likely" it's still better to ensure your chances are ZERO rather than "not likely" when it comes to STD's, HEP B, HIV, or pregnancy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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