Need Advice, Encouragement, Long Distance relationship Complicated. Help

[katrina1980]

 

The whole situation sounds a bit bizarre

 

 

Something's not quite jiving.

 

Quoted again for emphasis.

 

 

:eek:

[thisisrichey]

you're right- you can't trust her anymore. so don't!

thus.. divorce her and move on.

 

her trustworthiness is no longer a factor or concern when she is NOT in your life.. so remove her.

[Hollyj]

Why Would it surprise you, has already cheated on you?

[HealingLight]

For those not aware, dissociative identity disorder is the updated term for multiple personality disorder. I don't know how badly affected she is by DID, but I imagine it would be very difficult to be in a relationship with someone who has other personas. There may not be a lot of consistency and maybe one of her personalities would easily cheat, etc. whereas another would feel a different level of commitment or way about you. I don't really see how you can salvage this situation. Not only has she not been trustworthy by carrying out affairs, but I'm assuming you also don't know what version of her you're going to get from one moment/day to the next.