dwarefunguy Posted July 26, 2018 Share Posted July 26, 2018 Why would my ex girlfriend reach out after going no contact, acts great and friendly, make plans to meet up for ice cream at our old house, and then cancels a few hours before and say she is dating someone and proceeds to get mad when i say that was messed up, after which I found out she lied again about dating someone because she created a dating profile today on a dating site im also on. She then proceeds to get upset and say im accusing her of lying, which she did? So confused. I know it sounds crazy but i want to reconcile. We had almost 4 years together. I truly do so any advice that could possibly lead to a chance to reconcile so anything that can help toward that I would love to do Why would she do this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honeycomb8 Posted July 26, 2018 Share Posted July 26, 2018 She contacted u and dangled a carrot for an ego boost. She got defensive because no-one likes to be called out. If I were you, I'd block her and never speak to her again. She doesn't care about you, you're just validation and amusement, that is all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dwarefunguy Posted July 26, 2018 Author Share Posted July 26, 2018 She contacted u and dangled a carrot for an ego boost. She got defensive because no-one likes to be called out. If I were you, I'd block her and never speak to her again. She doesn't care about you, you're just validation and amusement, that is all.And that sucks too. Almost 4 years and a couple months from proposing before we split now at this point. This hurts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honeycomb8 Posted July 26, 2018 Share Posted July 26, 2018 It does hurt. I've been there :( but we must accept reality and not hope for an illusion. You deserve respect because you're not her toy. You will get over this in time. Slowly heal and do stay away from her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honeycomb8 Posted July 26, 2018 Share Posted July 26, 2018 Reconciling with an immature and selfish girl who turns things on you is only going to leave u more hurt. She doesn't respect you. If she did she wouldn't act this way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catfeeder Posted July 27, 2018 Share Posted July 27, 2018 Why would she do this? Just showing herself how easily she can still lead you around. The question becomes, why did you participate? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted July 27, 2018 Share Posted July 27, 2018 Sorry to hear this. It sounds like she wants you around in the friendzone as a backup plan or comfort food when the online dating world rears it's ugly head to her. Do not jump at the chance to be her friend. Instead, stay strict no contact and be clear that you are not interested in anything but a reconciliation. You're on a dating site? Just keep pursuing that and have fun and ignore the breadcrumbs. cancels a few hours before and say she is dating someone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dwarefunguy Posted July 28, 2018 Author Share Posted July 28, 2018 Heres an update. Got this email from her just now. Have not responded to it "I wasn’t trying to purposefully hurt you. I misread the situation, I thought we were being friends. But I know better now. I’m sorry" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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