Jetta Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 But I'm not contacting him anymore mainly because I feel it's pointless. He stated his truth and I can't force a relationship. I'm sick for the first time in years which I know is related to the break up. I'm struggling and wishing and hoping I'm not going to, but I know in my heart of hearts that we aren't right for each other. It doesn't change how I feel about him though, I really did love him. Still do. Even God prevented me from seeing him, my car was broken down for a week just found out it's repaired today. It's just so sad to me that even though we both love each other we can't make it work. I always thought love was worth fighting for. I never really had it. I'm so sad. I keep wishing my life would end because I can't believe I have to keep living this awfulness. At least this time I'm mentally stable still, but physically it hit me like a ton of bricks. Than I wonder how he's doing, he was depressed without treatment. It's been 3 days of NC, every day is a struggle for me not to reach out to him. I just keep telling myself it's really over but it doesn't feel over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whatevs14 Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 I so feel you. I'm also on day three of NC and tell myself that it's really over even though it doesn't feel that way. You mentioned God, so I'll share that I have faith that God has something even better in store for me and that helps keep me going. We'll both get through this one day at a time, or even one hour at a time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetta Posted February 27, 2018 Author Share Posted February 27, 2018 I know your right. Good luck on maintaining no contact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chicafella80 Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 Bless your heart!! I wish a hug would make it better !! But i know its time that will make u stronger!! I wish i can say or do something to make it go away !! Time will though !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boltnrun Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 Did you get to see your daughter this past weekend? Hopefully that cheered you up a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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