kungfumaster Posted April 23, 2005 Share Posted April 23, 2005 hi everyone, i am going back to the city (TO) where my ex and i were together for 2 years - its the first time since we broke up about a year ago (i live in a different city due to work - one reason i think our relationship didn't last). i'm going there because its on the way to a conference i am going to. i am staying for about 4 days because i miss toronto actually and i wanted to see some of my friends who are still there. i have so many good memories there plus in general, its a fun city. i wanted to "relive" some of my youthful days wiht my old friends. my question is: should i try to contact her for a coffee or something? we are on good terms - that's about it... we're not really friends though because we don't really talk to each other anymore. i am curious to how she is doing though, i.e., does she have a job now, how is life going in general, how is her family, etc... that would be my main reason to get in touch with her again. in reality, i don't really see us getting back together again - its would just be too hard. any thoughts would be appreciated... thanks everyone. kung fu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tryingtobestrong Posted April 23, 2005 Share Posted April 23, 2005 If you can stand finding out that she is happy in a new relationship, then I would say yes. The breakup was one year ago and you are on friendly terms. Why not? I have met an ex about a year after the breakup and it was good to see him again. Problem was that he wanted to get back together, which I did not, but otherwise it was good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarterJonas Posted April 23, 2005 Share Posted April 23, 2005 hi kungfu, By all means get in touch with her, but only as the above said if you can handle that she 'might' have a new boyfriend. Otherwise I would leave it be and enjoy your time there partying and catching up with friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kungfumaster Posted April 25, 2005 Author Share Posted April 25, 2005 hey thanks guys for your advise... good points. i remember when i found out that my first ex had a new bf - it hurt but, it certainly sped up my recovery process. actually, i'm pretty sure she has a new bf now. ahhh - whatever - if it happens, it happens - if it doesn't, it doesn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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