Snooped through boyfriends phone...any suggestions welcome

[Seraphim]

So you decided to invade your boyfriend's privacy for no other reason than because you were bored? Oh and curious.

 

I dunno, somehow I think that's worse than if you had a suspicion.

Absolutely I would never tolerate that ,ever .

[boltnrun]

Can't you find something else to do when you're "bored"? I don't know, gardening, see friends, watch something interesting on TV, watch a film, read a book, do crafts, bake something? Instead of "I'm bored, think I'll invade my boyfriend's privacy".

[katrina1980]

Absolutely I would never tolerate that ,ever .

 

Yeah, I said this on a different thread, but I seriously wonder about some people's thought process.

 

Unbelievable.

[Seraphim]

Can't you find something else to do when you're "bored"? I don't know, gardening, see friends, watch something interesting on TV, watch a film, read a book, do crafts, bake something? Instead of "I'm bored, think I'll invade my boyfriend's privacy".

I don't know I crochet and watch YouTube when I'm bored .

[journeynow]

UPDATE: I was genuinely just curious and out of boredom I had no reason to snoop...

Curiosity and boredom...it happens. And this is a good time to reflect on what is allowed in your relationship under the umbrella of boredom and curiosity. What if your partner is bored and curious about Michelle, or someone else, just a kiss, or secret time alone, or whatever?

 

It may seem harmless enough to follow your curiosity if you have no ill intent, yet if someone crosses your unspoken boundaries it doesn't feel harmless. Does this make sense?