Igor1 Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 Ex is casually seeing a new girl. They talk every day. And see each other a couple of times a week. He says he doesn't see a future with her but that he wants to give her a shot. We had sex today and hung out all day and he said he felt kind of guilty after. He texted her the whole time we were hanging out because he was paranoid she would suspect something was up. Does it mean he wants something more from this girl? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DanZee Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 No, it means he feels guilty for cheating on her. You should feel guilty for helping him cheat on her. Come on. Did you really need to ask this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Igor1 Posted December 24, 2017 Author Share Posted December 24, 2017 He says that they're not officially boyfriend girlfriend so it isn't that bad. He also says he will leave her soon because they're incompatible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaisyMayPorter Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 He says that they're not officially boyfriend girlfriend so it isn't that bad. He also says he will leave her soon because they're incompatible. He told you that so that you wouldn’t feel guilty and to make himself feel better. How would you feel if you were the other woman? I feel bad for her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Igor1 Posted December 24, 2017 Author Share Posted December 24, 2017 They've been kind of seeing each other for four months but he refuses to call her his gf. They're not even fb friends because he doesn't think they'll last long. Yet he was fb stalking her ex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pippy longstocking Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 Yes he has said he wants to give her a shot , you are just a bit of fun in his sad existence .... don't disrespect yourself and allow this idiot to have his cake and eat and THEN tell you basically his thoughts are with her not you . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ziggy123 Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 He sounds like a slime ball. I would tell him to get lost Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 What it means? He playing you both for sex.Ex is casually seeing a new girl. He says he doesn't see a future with her. We had sex today and hung out all day and he said he felt kind of guilty after. He texted her the whole time we were hanging out because he was paranoid she would suspect something was up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetGirl28 Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 Girl!!!! Wake up!!!! This is okay with you??? Where is your self respect?? He's using you, using her, he's selfish, a liar, a cheater, and you accept this??? Doing what you're doing will never make him come back and commit to you. Guys choose girls they have respect for. He has none for you. He cares about her way more than he does you. That's why he was texting her, so she wouldn't get suspicious. He wants her. Maybe she hasn't had sex with him yet so he gets it from you. Maybe he does it so you don't move on. Who knows. But seriously----you won't get him back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raindropsun Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 I'm baffled. Why are you even seeing your ex still? Why are you even having sex with him when he's seeing someone else? He probably did the same to you while he was with you. He's just using you for sex so why even bother with him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted December 24, 2017 Share Posted December 24, 2017 He says that they're not officially boyfriend girlfriend so it isn't that bad. He also says he will leave her soon because they're incompatible. If he can sink to the level of cheating on her, what makes you think he won't do the same to you? I would think you'd like to have more respect for yourself, other than agreeing to be an accomplice to someone with the morals of a turnip. Where's the prize here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Igor1 Posted December 24, 2017 Author Share Posted December 24, 2017 I love him still. He says this girl is broken and depressed and has a lot of mental health issues that lead her to be disorganized to not handle conflict well and to be lazy and unmotivated. He wants to fix her problems before he leaves her so she won't be devastated when they break up because she is fragile. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boltnrun Posted December 25, 2017 Share Posted December 25, 2017 I thought it's because he has a big penis like you said in your other thread. Now you're saying it's because you still love him. Which is it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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