restingsoul Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 I met this guy who made me feel something I never felt. We seem to be on the same page and want all the same things. When I wake up he is the first thing on my mind. He follows me around at work and we have long intimate conversations. I broke up with my bf of 6 years because I felt so secure in our connection and like to continue with my bf would be like cheating on the new guy. My crush almost broke up with his gf for reasons unrelated to me but they worked it out. My last bf and I never had sex at the end and maybe that is why I feel so unbalanced and blown away by this attraction. The new guy is also much younger than me. I am trying to adjust to the fact that this guy has a gf he will not leave. It's just hard when it feels so right and so perfect and like a soulmate connection. I've only known him for a few months. Should I wait for him or should I jump into dating other people? Should I tell him how I feel? I am normally a very stable person who knows myself well and makes good decisions for myself. The chemistry here is making me feel unwound. I believe I am in love with him and I don't know how to handle it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honeycomb8 Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 He has a gf, that's all you need to know. You're running on attraction and it's time to think with your head. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyman Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 How long ago did you break up with your bf of 6 years? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted November 30, 2017 Share Posted November 30, 2017 Because of this 6919065]this guy has a gf he will not leave.Do this 6919065] jump into dating other people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
restingsoul Posted November 30, 2017 Author Share Posted November 30, 2017 I broke up with the boyfriend 2 months ago and feel great about the decision. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
restingsoul Posted December 1, 2017 Author Share Posted December 1, 2017 I guess I should just accept the fact that he doesn't want to be with me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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