Allison44 Posted July 30, 2017 Share Posted July 30, 2017 If you have a friend and they don't really text you during the summer (they have time, trust me they lazy) but they text you for help or advice during the semester, are they really your friend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j.man Posted July 30, 2017 Share Posted July 30, 2017 Depends what you consider a "friend." I've got a lot of friends I don't text or go to for advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sara-pezzini Posted July 30, 2017 Share Posted July 30, 2017 Think this is about the same thing as your other thread right underneath this one! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hollyj Posted July 30, 2017 Share Posted July 30, 2017 If they only contact you when they need something, they are not your friend. Do not help him anymore. Also, you should not help people with the expectation that they owe you something. People also don't respect when others try to buy their friendship. "I don't understand. I helped him so much, and the least he could do is just meet up with me once during summer and spend time. I let him know that I don't have feelings for him but I just wanna chill with him. He said we'll meet during the semester (think its a lie) Also he doesn't wanna hang because he's saving money but I said that I could pay for him (friends buy each other lunch, totally fine). But he doesn't feel comfortable." Do you have other friends? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allison44 Posted July 30, 2017 Author Share Posted July 30, 2017 If they only contact you when they need something, they are not your friend. Do not help him anymore. Also, you should not help people with the expectation that they owe you something. People also don't respect when others try to buy their friendship. "I don't understand. I helped him so much, and the least he could do is just meet up with me once during summer and spend time. I let him know that I don't have feelings for him but I just wanna chill with him. He said we'll meet during the semester (think its a lie) Also he doesn't wanna hang because he's saving money but I said that I could pay for him (friends buy each other lunch, totally fine). But he doesn't feel comfortable." Do you have other friends? Yeah I have other friends, I'm going to hang with them from now on and try to forget about this guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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