Crystal Clear2 Posted January 21, 2017 Share Posted January 21, 2017 I decided after re reading all his short and blaming texts justs to delete them all in one hit. Boom. Gone. I'm day 14 NC and beginning to see he was never into me, had no intention of reconciling or fighting for our relationship. He just blamed me and shut the door. We are not friends on facebook, although there's messenger but i will never lower myself and try again. So, it's a big step in moving forward and realising it's truly over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tinkyonks Posted January 21, 2017 Share Posted January 21, 2017 good for you! now you dont have to analyse the past and can focus on the now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crystal Clear2 Posted January 21, 2017 Author Share Posted January 21, 2017 Thank you. That's exactly why i did it. Going back, reading caused great set backs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rich46 Posted January 21, 2017 Share Posted January 21, 2017 Well done! Another step closer to healing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crystal Clear2 Posted January 21, 2017 Author Share Posted January 21, 2017 Thank you. As much as it hurts, it had to be done. He dumped me. There's no point in reading old messages. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted January 21, 2017 Share Posted January 21, 2017 Excellent. After a breakup your two best friends are the delete and block buttons.I decided after re reading all his short and blaming texts justs to delete them all in one hit. Boom. Gone. ] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crystal Clear2 Posted January 21, 2017 Author Share Posted January 21, 2017 We have been broken up nearly 2 months. Its taken me a while to reach this point. But yes, i do agree. Delete and block. He couldn't care less, why should i? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catfeeder Posted January 22, 2017 Share Posted January 22, 2017 Great for you! Consider making it a private goal to surprise everyone, including yourself, with your resilience and ability to bounce back. This puts you in the best frame of mind for rekindling neglected relationships with friends and family, and it's a source of pride and accomplishment to teach people to NOT worry about you. The more generous you can be with your time and energy in building stronger bonds with loved ones that focuses on THEM rather than your pain, the stronger your foundation for feeling loved and valued--and able to meet new goals. Head high. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crystal Clear2 Posted January 22, 2017 Author Share Posted January 22, 2017 Thank you. I just have maybe 2 more steps to complete. Tpday is day 16 NC and I'm now fully aware i will never hear from him again. No effort has been made. I've been in anguish long enough. It's face reality time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keeping Sane Posted January 24, 2017 Share Posted January 24, 2017 Deleting text messages are big leap to moving on. Good for you! Thanks for responding to my own post and I'll eventually delete my own shared text messages with my ex soon enough! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crystal Clear2 Posted January 25, 2017 Author Share Posted January 25, 2017 Deleting text messages are big leap to moving on. Good for you! Thanks for responding to my own post and I'll eventually delete my own shared text messages with my ex soon enough! Just do it when it feels right. Could take a year. You will know xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crystal Clear2 Posted January 25, 2017 Author Share Posted January 25, 2017 In fact, i just deleted all our messenger conversations. All gone. He doesn't care for me. I'm not hanging on to read old messenger piece of scraps. One more step. We are not facebook friends. One step to go blocking him and im done. Day 18 bring it on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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