easyguy Posted March 16, 2005 Share Posted March 16, 2005 In thread posted a while back I explained the situation. In a nutshell I had (still have) a crush on this girl in one of my classes (I'm a senior in high school, she's a sophomore, really cute), gave her a note telling her I thought she was cute, I tried talking to her more, and almost asked her out. Then just the other day she said she didn't have those kind of feelings for me. We're still friends, but we haven't talked too much since then. Anyways, in class, I still try to get her attention and make her notice me (like standing up frequently to get something, or just moving around a lot). It's become a natural thing for me lately. And over the past few days in class, when she has to leave early from class I really don't want her to go even though I don't talk to her in class. And I can't seem to stop listening to her conversations with her neighbors (which are just school related). Is this becoming an obsession? At the same time there is another girl I have a crush on in another class (actually, band). Sometimes I wish I could just put her (girl #1) in the back of my head, but I think about her all the time and have feelings for her, even though she's not on the same level. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MetallicAguy Posted March 16, 2005 Share Posted March 16, 2005 No it's not it's your shyness overcoming your mind and controlling you. Lol, I've done that before, it's normal. Humans are curious creatures, it's been hard-wired into our brains for God knows how long. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prosper Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 Thats infatuation, not yet obssession. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tosing Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 Ask yourself just why you're attracted to her -other than the fact that she's cute. If she's made it clear she isn't attracted to you in the same way, you'll have to accept this. I mean really. When women say that they mean it. Go for the other girl in band. You may find you like her more than the other girl. When the other girl sees you with the girl in band I'm sure she'll perk up. But don't see the girl in band just to get the other girl's attention. Sometime guys are just attracted to the challenge of getting the girl. Make sure this is not the case with you. Also, ask yourself -Why do I want someone who doesn't want me? I hope this helps. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dre_7 Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 Go after your other crush, life is too short to waste time with girls who don't feel the same way. Especially since she's made it clear that she doesn't feel the same way. If you think you have strong feelings for girl #1, imagine what it would feel like if the girl in band actually liked you back. It's like the feelings will intensify x 1000000000000.... go after the other girl...ya never know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smitty Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 Thats infatuation, not yet obssession. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alabama Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 Since this girl has told you she has no feelings for you, I would forget it and try to concentrate on the crush in band. You'll have a better chance I'm sure. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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