notchristian Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 Hi, I am a non Christian in love with a Christian man (born again). He rejected me due to the fact that I'm not Christian. I currently started reading into Christianity and I'm intrigued. I am willing to convert. What should I do?? It would be nice to hear from Christians as well.... Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capricorn3 Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 He rejected me due to the fact that I'm not Christian. What should I do?? You move on and find someone who is compatible. This guy clearly is not and it would be wasting time and energy trying to get him back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abitbroken Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 Hi, I am a non Christian in love with a Christian man (born again). He rejected me due to the fact that I'm not Christian. I currently started reading into Christianity and I'm intrigued. I am willing to convert. What should I do?? It would be nice to hear from Christians as well.... Thanks Many Christians seek a partner who shares their faith. It just makes sense, especially when the kids come in the picture and helps in life if the person closest to you - your husband/wife shares similar philosophy. I don't think the word REJECTED is really the term - maybe more so dated and then chose to not continue if he is really looking for his future wife rather than "just wants to date" and you are too dissimilar. My family is Christian - two different denominations for the most part but all the same background. I would explore Christianity on your own. If you are intrigued, start attending church services and join a Bible study group so that you might learn more on your own. You may or may not get this guy back - but you will be enriching yourself by learning. You may happen to reconnect with him - or meet someone who is even more suited as well. Also - how far along was the relationship when you broke up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tallydoo Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 Hi, I am a non Christian in love with a Christian man (born again). He rejected me due to the fact that I'm not Christian. I currently started reading into Christianity and I'm intrigued. I am willing to convert. What should I do?? It would be nice to hear from Christians as well.... Thanks Don't convert for someone, especially not someone you're trying to win back. Convert because you believe it to be true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fudgie Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 Don't convert for someone, especially not someone you're trying to win back. Convert because you believe it to be true. This. Find someone else. Don't pretend to believe in something just to be with someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hermes Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 Absolutely! "Don't pretend to believe in something just to be with someone." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrina Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 If he all of a sudden got married and was off the market, would you still be intrigued and pursue this religion? If you do this solely to win him over, he may see it as a phony ruse. Do it for yourself if you feel like it, but I'd let the thought of being with him go. Your future bf will want you just as you are, as the person you are at that very moment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DoF Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 Stay away from religious people. You are none religious for a very good reason! And a smart one as well (IMO) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doc Blaze Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 ^^ I believe you are one of the reasons religion threads get closed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hermes Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 Er, I think the OP mentioned being non-Christian, which is not the same as non-religious. Maybe of some other persuasion/religion? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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