Zach42o1 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 So here it is, im 31 yrs old and currently using my GI Bill to go back to school. i met this girl a couple of months ago and since then it was the best relationship ive had to date. we both clicked on so many levels, could go a couple of hours with out her calling me. then that all changed at the beginning of the month.she moved and her life became very busy also, we had sex and well Im a bit larger than what she was used to and it ended up hurting her it was intentional but she then pulled back very hard and told me we needed to slow down with sex until she could get used to it. but that same weekend she just ignored me for 2 days not responding to my texts or calls. so that monday we start talking again and she said she was to busy and to just relax everything is fine... but a few days later the same thing is happening she just ignores me all weekend when we both have off work. and then last week when she still told me she loved me and everything was fine. we had lunch on a thursday, i thought i would be nice then sent her flowers that same day. i didn't hear from her the entire rest of the day and she then text me to tell me we had to break up. since then its been very limited contact, she went on to tell me that she was pregnant from before we started dating and that we couldnt talk anymore because she couldn't offer me more than a friendship. it just doesn't make sense at all and im still very confused from everything that has happened. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhowe Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 Well...if she is pregnant from before she met you than she has an ex in her very recent past. I doubt the child could be yours since you only had sex once and it didn't work so well (assuming you used a condom). So...you were a rebound guy and she has gone back to the ex. There really isn't much you can do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zach42o1 Posted April 22, 2015 Author Share Posted April 22, 2015 the thing is there isn't an ex. she got pregnant from her rebound as she put it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhowe Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 Did you practice safe sex? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zach42o1 Posted April 22, 2015 Author Share Posted April 22, 2015 yeah, she repeatedly told me that it isn't mine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhowe Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 Well...then... She has broken up with you and clearly has a baby Daddy in the bushes. There isn't anything you can do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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