magichat Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 Hey there. I have posted here for about 6 or 7 weeks. My girlfriend of five years broke up with me about 2 months ago. I have not talked to her in that long. I have been reading and writint and hanging out with my friends. I was in really bad shape for about a month or so but still didnt have ant contact with her. At a christmas party this weekend i was hanging out with this girl. I have met her a few times before this but i never looked at her in this light before. We had a great time together. I am really looking forward to getting to know her better but i am also a little nervous about it. It has only been 2 months since my break up and i dont know if i can trust my own head right now even though it feels right. on the other hand i really want to call her and hang out. another thing is that i just turned 25 and she is a few months away from 21. She seemed so fun and bright. At the party she kept giving me hints and that she was interested and flirting with me all night. I feel like a little kid again. you know that feeling of a happy anxous. I just dont want to go into anything fast, I also dont want to scare her away either. If anyone may have some advice please reply sincerly D.J Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonGirl724 Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 glad to see youre on the up & up. you said: "i dont know if i can trust my own head right now even though it feels right." i am in the same boat. just take your time & dont look at her as a potential GF. look at her as a great person thats a ton of fun to hang with & things will eventually fall into place as they are meant to. -DG724 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShuShu Fontana Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 Sounds like the success story from Swingers. Just go with it and have a good time. Focus on getting to know her and having fun. It sounds like a great distraction and who knows where it could go? Keep it up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prosper Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 Hi Pal, She is probably teasing and flirting and having fun with you. She might not be that serious with u after all. Dun think too much, just a birthday celebration.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ticklebug Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 nothing wrong with a friends first approach... however, if you do find yourself becoming more attracted to this girl in time, dont allow your previous relationship to hinder it...this is a new girl, new circumstances and new start...keep reminding yourself of that.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magichat Posted December 22, 2004 Author Share Posted December 22, 2004 thanks for all your advice. I have been through this once before so i come into it with a little knowledge. I am just so shy and nervous when it comes to these things, almost as if i am afraid to call her even though i know she wants me to. May be it is the fear of rejection, though i know she wants to hear from me. I havnt felt this nevous to call a girl since i was in high school, I guess i figured that that anxious, nervous feeling only happened when we are younger. I guess at 25 it still exists. I just feel that i am going to be talking a million miles a minute when i call. Thank for the advice D.J Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ticklebug Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 I guess at 25 it still exists & 35 & 45 & 55 it's not an age thing it's a meeting new person thing..always give a person butterflies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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