I'm finally going to take the hardest step in my life

[Wimpy]

Dan

You are totally normally in how you describe feeling about your g/f. I don't think there are many people who haven't been through it and got to a point where the ex dominates every waking moment. You open your eyes in the morning and it's the FIRST thing you think of...you go to bed and it's the LAST thing you think of. You try and hang out and do other stuff but EVERYTHING reminds you of the ex...places you hung out, stuff you did together. It's hell Dan but it does pass in time. And hey don't give up hope - if that makes it bearable for the moment then go with that hope. No-one can predict the future and just because someone says "1 in 10" work out - how do you know you're not the ONE?

 

Never give up hope until the time is right for you to do so would be my advice.

 

But most importantly look after yourself and a trick that's really helped me through life is to try and imagine this was happening to your best friend...what would you tell them?

 

Now apply it to yourself.

 

My heart goes out to you.

 

Wimpy