Spectral Posted December 21, 2004 Share Posted December 21, 2004 Hey it's me again. I'm juggling through these situations all the time. lol Well I'm going to keep it short and not detailed or anything. There's this new girl I just met at work for 2 weeks now. When she first saw me she just looked and said nothing while my friend introduced me to her. I kind of fell in love at that point and took "note" of her beauty. The next couple of days I would see her at the soda machines and I would say hi and hav ebrief conversations with her and I would always catch her staring. So well, I looked back lol. Then about hours later I asked her how her day was going and she said she felt like going home and going to sleep and then she asked me did I want to go to sleep too. o_O it was pretty awkward. she used to ride the train but she drives now, but she used to sit me in the back and stare at me from afar. I caught her in the copying room last week and she gave me a lot of eye contact even when I wasn't looking at her, we kept making jokes with her, and she would stand dangerously close to me. she dropped something and I gave it back to her but I didnt want to touch her hand so when I tried to put the clip in her hand it dropped. weird huh? just today we meet again in the copying room and we started talkin gagain. she kept winking at me like 20 times and lookin, and her friend came over and actually tagteamed flirting with me. I was focused on my work so I didnt pay too much attention to it. then she told the girl[i like] that to just "put the phone down". but after that I still kept looking at her and vice verse and finding excuses to go back into the copying room. @_@ I'm really trying to figure this out[she seems like a flirt, but if some other guys in the room she'll still focus on me] HALP lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ticklebug Posted December 21, 2004 Share Posted December 21, 2004 I'm not big on people dating who work together....that can be a disaster waiting to happen if it doesn't work out...but I also know people who have made it work... why not ask her if she wants to have lunch sometime... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spectral Posted December 21, 2004 Author Share Posted December 21, 2004 Yeah true. Im still playing it safe though. I do know the risks of work dating, but apparently she dosen't seem to care. I really dont know where to go on from this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ticklebug Posted December 21, 2004 Share Posted December 21, 2004 just make it friends first via work...lunch and such...nothing outside of office hours... see if getting to know her out of the office, but still within a boundary helps you to get to know her better inorder to make a decision to go further with it or not... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alabama Posted December 21, 2004 Share Posted December 21, 2004 If you want to date her, then ask her out! Take it slow and try not to let work get between you and your relatioship with this girl, if it develops. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spectral Posted December 21, 2004 Author Share Posted December 21, 2004 Yeah you guys are great. This has been pondering my mind for awhile and I was just wondering what to do in this situation. It seems like she's into me, but I don't really like to think for myself. I guess the only way to find out is to ask huh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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