shiminimo Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 I love my gf, But I hate her cooking! I mean it's really bad. I don't know how to tell her without hurting her feelings.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caldus Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 LOL then why don't you try cooking some of the same stuff that she cooks for you. Just kiddin'. Well let's see. What does she cook for ya? Does it always end up being a "bad" meal for you? Maybe you could talk her into making some different things or something. Of course, make sure she's cool with that too. LOL I dunno. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shiminimo Posted December 5, 2004 Author Share Posted December 5, 2004 yeppers.... eveytime it's bad... everything is burnt... when the smoke alarm goes off. It's time for dinner! (yipee!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caldus Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 Heh. Well then tell her to watch the time and be more careful! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maasikus Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 hmm...what u cud do is cook together or something...so u cud save the meal when she is messin it up... she might get offended coz she is doin somethin special for u...so the best way to save a meal is either follow the recipe as precisely as possible(there is NO way to mess up that bad when some1 does this) or cook together...it cud be fun when u both cook together... hope it helped maasikus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OceanEyes Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 How old are you and your girlfriend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blazintrav Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 You should try cooking or get her a cookbook or someone to show her how to cook well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fantasia2004 Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 WELL, is the sex good or bad too? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarterJonas Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 lol. Yeah I can understand, nowadays it is difficult to find a girlfriend that is also a good cook and cleaner Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shiminimo Posted December 5, 2004 Author Share Posted December 5, 2004 LOL,the sex is good....she doesn't do that bad ......LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shiminimo Posted December 5, 2004 Author Share Posted December 5, 2004 yeah.... she doesn't clean to good either, but I can't complain cuz it's her house...hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shiminimo Posted December 5, 2004 Author Share Posted December 5, 2004 oceaneyes, my girlfriend and I are both twenty. I'll stay with her forever if her cookin don't KILL me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avman Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 Well some people just have better cooking skills than others. Not everybody can be a chef you know How about you be the one who does the cooking? And she can handle other tasks that you aren't as good at. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shiminimo Posted December 5, 2004 Author Share Posted December 5, 2004 don't take me wrong..I'm not makin fun of her... I'm not too good of cook myself, she likes to cook for me and I appreciate that she tries hard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caldus Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 Show her a good recipe and tell her you that you would like for her to make it. Maybe you two can cook together like others have suggested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avman Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 Ok, how about the two of you take a cooking class together if neither of you are good at it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scout Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 Yes, take a class...that would be a really fun bonding experience, plus practice makes perfect! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tea Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 why do you expect her to cook and clean after you anyways? if you want someone to do that, GET A MAID. They're not that expensive, just 1400 a month. She is your girlfriend. She's under no obligation to cook or clean for you. She's already doing you a favor by cooking and letting you eat what she cooked, if you don't like it, cook yourself. ... that's why I stay with hot dog and instant noodle meals when bf comes around. Heh, no way am I ever cooking or cleaning for him. Where's the equality when you sit back and expect her to slave after you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shiminimo Posted December 5, 2004 Author Share Posted December 5, 2004 no tea, I love my gf, and she wants to cook for me. I don't make her do anything she doesn't want to... she just doesn't cook to good IMO and I don't want to hurt her feelings.. so I'm asking for advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OceanEyes Posted December 6, 2004 Share Posted December 6, 2004 I actually love cooking nice dinners for my man, I don't see it as a battle for equality. Plus, if I didn't cook healthy meals for him occasionally, he would probably live on Dr. Pepper, Kraft Dinner, Doritos, and microwave dinners (which are okay if in moderation). Some people are just lousy cooks. It's not that big of a deal, as long as someone is willing to cook for them, lol! If your girlfriend really wants to cook for you, suggest a class (as listed above). The thing about the cleaning - I wouldn't ever complain about that. If you don't like how she's cleaned something, do it yourself. She's probably just trying to do these things to make you happy, so to actually find little things to complain about will probably be pretty insulting. Chip in a little and help her out; if you want something done properly, you might just have to take matters into your own hands. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetGemini Posted December 6, 2004 Share Posted December 6, 2004 my guy bought me cooking books... *hint hint* he knows i dont know how to cook, and i know i dont know how to cook, i always said, once i have a cooking book i would be able to cook anything, well he got me the cooking books, still havent started! but i will, very soon, maybe today... see my mum cooks, so i dont see the need to cook just yet, when i will HAVE to cook then i will... BTW i make really nice breakfasts..! practice makes perfect as said above, just let your gf keep practicing and keep giving her encouragement and positive reinforcement when she does something really good... maybe that would shape her up into a good cook... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shiminimo Posted December 6, 2004 Author Share Posted December 6, 2004 the thing about the cleaning.... that was a joke! I was just kiddin... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nexus532 Posted December 6, 2004 Share Posted December 6, 2004 if she can't cook she better be good at sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
butterflies Posted January 23, 2005 Share Posted January 23, 2005 maybe she wants you to lose some weight, so she's doing that so you'll eat less.... j/k maybe she did that on purpose, maybe she wants both of you to cook together, you know, cooking together, eating together, isn't that sweet! same as the rest, try cooking class. there are some channels on tv where they teach you how to cook and give you tips on cooking, that will help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mt_joy Posted January 24, 2005 Share Posted January 24, 2005 I say cook together and maybe take a cooking class together. Telling her outright may just hurt her feelings. Remember, she's eating this food too and know how it tastes, so maybe she really is trying to get better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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