thisisnotanexit Posted December 23, 2004 Share Posted December 23, 2004 thanks guys but i can't say to my mom, mom i'm a cutter. I just can't and i believe the counselor will tell my parents or something. And i don't really have someone to talk to about it. Don't get me wrong i want to stop,but its just not working.And latly i've been doing it more and more.I'm kinda scared. a counselor wont tell your mom if you tell her or him not to. neither would like a counselor, or somoene else you trust that could help you. if you say you want it confidential, they have to do it. keep it up. i'm glad to see you want to change so much. i beliieve you can do it. keep up the great progress, we're all here for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whathappensnext Posted December 23, 2004 Author Share Posted December 23, 2004 thanks for the support Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisisnotanexit Posted December 23, 2004 Share Posted December 23, 2004 no problem...anytime Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whathappensnext Posted December 29, 2004 Author Share Posted December 29, 2004 i have noticed that more poeple are reading this. so i wanted to update everyone. Well since i've posted this of course i have cut agian and i feel bad because i have.But i guess the good news is i haven't for like a week now. i know i will probly agian sometime soon. But atleast i'm trying and making an effort. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ticklebug Posted December 29, 2004 Share Posted December 29, 2004 a counselor wont tell your mom if you tell her or him not to. neither would like a counselor, or somoene else you trust that could help you. if you say you want it confidential, they have to do it. as much as I want you to get help I have to let you know that this is not true. We, as counselors, don't HAVE to keep information from someone's parents, epecially if we feel treatment for what is going on requires something only a parent can authorize...or we are concerned that there is a sucide risk. Remember, we are talking about a minor here...if you were over 18 your medical privacy right would kick in...but not when you are under their roof or I'm being paid by their insurance. Anyone "like" a counselor...has even less obligation for privacy than someone in my profession. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whathappensnext Posted December 29, 2004 Author Share Posted December 29, 2004 wow thanks i had no clue. that would of been bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisisnotanexit Posted December 29, 2004 Share Posted December 29, 2004 well, still, there are people in your life who will help you through this, confidentially. like myself and others.. you can do it, keep up the progress and be careul! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whathappensnext Posted December 30, 2004 Author Share Posted December 30, 2004 i will and i'm trying real hard. I'm not sure i should get others (other than enotalone.com) involved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisisnotanexit Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 if you ever feel the need, don't be afraid. you owe it to yourself, and others would just want to help. you can do it, we're all so very proud of you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whathappensnext Posted December 30, 2004 Author Share Posted December 30, 2004 not only am i afriad what people might think i'm afraid i will hurt them. I don't want anyone to be put through any thing cuz of me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisisnotanexit Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 believe me, i know what you're saying. but fear not, you would not be hurting them my involving them. it's hurting them more for them not to know, so they can't try and help you. you will not be a burden to them. people WANT to help you. you won't be hurting anyone but yourself, so please, if you feel that need, go for it. i don't think you'll be sorry that you did. hang in there, we're all here for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whathappensnext Posted December 31, 2004 Author Share Posted December 31, 2004 don't get me wrong i want it. My friends feel i always put others first i guess thats one of my flaws. BUt i have a feeling noones gonna be to happy about it. I want to do this on my own. Even if i didn't not sure family or friends could help right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whathappensnext Posted January 1, 2005 Author Share Posted January 1, 2005 man once again i have to start over. I don't know why but i did it again. Sorry everyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisisnotanexit Posted January 1, 2005 Share Posted January 1, 2005 it's ok, at least youre trying and you WANT to quit. just keep trying and please be careful! we're here for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whathappensnext Posted January 1, 2005 Author Share Posted January 1, 2005 i will and i feel so bad. i don't think its ever going to happen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisisnotanexit Posted January 1, 2005 Share Posted January 1, 2005 you're not alone. at least you're making an effort and that's awesome. you can do this i know it. take care Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whathappensnext Posted January 1, 2005 Author Share Posted January 1, 2005 ok thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverManic Posted January 2, 2005 Share Posted January 2, 2005 It's difficalt and there will be times that you may turn back or relaps. It's like a drug, you yern to do it yet you know you should not. Then you see the scars and know that it was there. That it is still there and it is still an option. Which is why I think it's so hard to stop. But it can be done and I'm sure you can do it! You want to and that will alone should be enough to help. GL, ~S. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whathappensnext Posted January 3, 2005 Author Share Posted January 3, 2005 wow i think your 100% right. I do still see it as an option, and i know it will always be there. But don't want it to be and i hope i can quit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisisnotanexit Posted January 8, 2005 Share Posted January 8, 2005 you can! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whathappensnext Posted January 8, 2005 Author Share Posted January 8, 2005 well i'm glad you think so but i'm not so sure anymore. i figured ok i can stop like that, but i was wrong and i haven't been doing it for that long. so i'm starting to think i will never be able to quit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thisisnotanexit Posted January 8, 2005 Share Posted January 8, 2005 just keep it up. it's hard to stop cold turkey. make sure you do your best to stay away from things that could trigger you. get rid of sharp objects, all of them. throw them away. and if you ever feel you could share this with others, maybe they could help you stay away from things that could trigger you. please keep up the good work, we're still all here for you. take care and good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whathappensnext Posted January 9, 2005 Author Share Posted January 9, 2005 ok thanks and thanks for replying to almost everyone of my posts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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