Zach42o1 Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 so here is the short version of the story. me and my girlfriend who started dating about 4 months ago we have spent everyday together and she pretty much moved in within the first month now wants to move back to her parents house. we both said that we moved in way to fast and that this might fix the problem in our relationship. but i just hate to see her go. i dont know of the sucess of a relationship after one has moved out. we both want to be together bust as she put it the spark went way to fast. is it worth saving..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gimpyrks Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 I think you guys just move in together way to fast. It takes MONTHS if not years to really know someone. I think it was great that she moved out quickly realizing that you guys aren't ready to be together that often. Take it as a good thing, I don't think it means she is breaking up with you. Some couples don't understand how important it is for each other to have their own space, and to do their own things. It keeps the realtionship from getting boring and you won't get on each others nerves. Now if you both are already talking/texting/seeding each other non-stop I can guess you won't stop just because I said so haha, but trust me I've seen it so many times. Having your own life (and she having her own life) will help the relationship stay fresh. And please do not move in together until you are together for a long time (me personally I would wait for over a year but that is just me). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zach42o1 Posted August 12, 2013 Author Share Posted August 12, 2013 yeah i think it will help to refreshen our relationship. it seemed like a good idea but just was way to fast. didnt even have time for the honeymoon stage which is kinda hard when you see the person everyday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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