ricci Posted May 13, 2003 Share Posted May 13, 2003 everytime i kiss my gf, i go hard, i know this is normal at first, but we've been together for about 5 months now/and it happens EVERYTIME, will it stop? is there any way of preventing it? coz its REALLY embaressing. PLZ help. thx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
owlman Posted May 13, 2003 Share Posted May 13, 2003 Hey Ricci, It's completely normal for this to happen. Hopefully, your girlfriend is mature enough to be understanding and not make a big deal out of it. Assuming that you're in your teens, it's just a natural response to the obvious physical/psychological/emotional stimulus, combined with the teenager hormones. Of course, there's always duct tape! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SwingFox Posted May 14, 2003 Share Posted May 14, 2003 Duct tape?? Ouch!!!! *grins* ------------------------------------------------- Hi Ricci, First of all welcome to eNotalone.com and thank you for coming to us for seeking advice. I am pleased to hear that you're getting along with your g/f so well. I understand that you feel somewhat uncomfortable while kissing your g/f. My suggestion is: relax! I wouldn't worry too much over it and I personally believe that your g/f should be happy over things, too. Just looks like that she really turns you on. What better compliment could a woman get??? Good luck in your relationship! ~ SwingFox ~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CalindaAnn Posted May 27, 2003 Share Posted May 27, 2003 If you go with tape go with gaf (gaffers) tape! What does you girlfriend think of it? Does she notice? Is it a turn on or off for her? As her about it OR try making sure she notices and watch her reactions... I bet she likes it. Hey she turns you on alest she knows she you really like her and really want to be with her. I don't think it is that big of deal... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
squirrley Posted July 6, 2003 Share Posted July 6, 2003 Hey! Being a girl...I know what her reaction might possibly be if she's cool with you getting hard when yall kiss. She'll prolly think it's funny at first, or atleast i did. My boyfriend of 2 years now got hard one time while wearing a swim suit after we had only been together for about 2 weeks and b/c he was wearing a swim suit there really wasn't any way he could hide it. But I just laughed it off and let him know that i was perfectly ok with it and i was happy to know that atleast i knew he liked me! Also another thought that came to my mide was "hey atleast he's hung" HAHA! so I hope that ur girlfriend will be understanding and like the other people said- if she's mature enough she really wont think much of it and at most just think it's a lil funny! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revol Posted July 9, 2003 Share Posted July 9, 2003 What's weird is, me and my gf were talking about this just the other day. We've been going out for 7 months now, and I've gotten hard every time we kiss. She's noticed this a few times, and said something like "as weird as it might sound that's flattering and kind of a turn-on." Many people get turned-on when they know that they turn *you* on. And yes, it's happened to me at the pool, too. Oh well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D11 Posted July 22, 2003 Share Posted July 22, 2003 I think it'd be a compliment to a girl, don't be ashamed of it, nothing you can do to stop it, it's nature. As for me, I don't have to worry about that problem considering I always wear baggy clothes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chillin snowman Posted September 10, 2003 Share Posted September 10, 2003 Hey man well first off congrats on finding a girl ya care for and second don't sweat the erection problem cause i used to do that for about he first week i was dating my girlfriend and she found it such a turn on ....i know it seems strange but i got more kisses that week so jsut don't sweat it and try to look on the positive side of it best of luck -snowman- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kodachrome Posted September 14, 2003 Share Posted September 14, 2003 As a girl, I vote it's DEFINITELY a compliment/turn-on...I've got no qualms about it!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EmptySoul Posted December 20, 2003 Share Posted December 20, 2003 hey! if i were your girl i wouldnt make a big deal about it. it just shows shes doing a good job of making you happy lol. don't worry about it. EmptySoul Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrazyKarl13 Posted January 20, 2004 Share Posted January 20, 2004 my boyfriend went hard everytime we made out in the beginning of our relationship too. But after a couple of months he was totally cool. I think when you start to move to different things.. that when you kiss again.. it wont seem like as good as it use to because you are use to doing bigger and better things lol. so it wont be as hard as you are use to. or maybe you could just jack off a lot lol.. thats just my suggestion Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liath Posted May 13, 2004 Share Posted May 13, 2004 I had the same problem with my current and first real gf (5 months now) and I figured it would happen, so I was prepared for it. The first time it happened, I told her before she could realize on her own, and said that I can't help that I love her and she turns me on! Sometimes it happens still even now, but ususally when we're against a wall making out or something, and she generally likes to grind against my jeans when it happens. So eventually it'll become a good thing. Also, if it ever happens and you don't exactly need / want it to, pull your pants down a bit, loose on your hips, and hopefully you're long enough to tuck it into the waist of your pants. I'm 15 yrs old and 7 1/2'' long..so this works out pretty well, cuz it's hard to hide otherwise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
r_u_happee Posted May 14, 2004 Share Posted May 14, 2004 My boy still gets hard when we kiss, or like, if we're just laying on the couch together, and we've been going out for almost a year... not much yu can really do about it... as long as it doesnt really bother her i wouldnt worry to much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum1umiteno Posted May 15, 2004 Share Posted May 15, 2004 she should be fine with it if not a little turned on but if she approches you about it and says tht she feel awkward when that happens i'd go for plan-B Duct Tape Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marialalo Posted May 16, 2004 Share Posted May 16, 2004 im not so sure bout the duct tape, but u have to assume that it'll stop eventually...plus most girls like to know that ur still interested Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guitargirl Posted May 20, 2004 Share Posted May 20, 2004 Just tip up her chin gently with your hand and give her a simple kiss on the lips-- No tongue, no open mouth, just go simple. A nice romantic environment helps to-- nothing to heart-pounding, take-a-risk, feeling-hot-- just cool and sweet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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