membo Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 Hi I'm 21 yrs old guy who never had sex, neved had gf or even kissed a girl and this happen mostly because I'm so insecure about my size down there,also I've been reading for this topic on internet a lot and I'm a little bit tired of advices like..itls how you use it etcc. So I would like to hear here from guys anout their size and also for girls who know about their partner"s manhood size,just to see the real situation which I am, by the way I'm 4.9 inch long when fully erected and I don't thinl I can grow anymore.plzz help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
becomingkate Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 Five to six inches fully erect is pretty average. The thing to remember is that men have sexual organs that are different lengths and widths and women have vaginal canals that are different lengths and widths. Some women like/require bigger penises, some like/require smaller penises. The key is to find a woman that "fits" and has similar sexual desires. I know you're tired of hearing "it's how you use it" but that is a universal truth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikeWater Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 It's also important to keep in mind that it's useless to worry and be concerned about this kind of thing because you cannot change it. It's like worrying about the end of the world. If a cataclysmic event is going to happen, it's going to happen, and there's nothing anyone can do about it. So it's pointless and a waste of your mental energy to worry about it. Same goes for your size, which is right on the verge of what's considered average. Accept the cards you've been dealt and just play your hand. This is much bigger deal in your head than it would ever be to a woman, especially a woman who's in love with YOU and not just your penis. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forrest99 Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 I sincerely doubt that the size of your penis would have a detrimental effect to "love-making". The vaginal canal is muscular, which closes together when there is nothing inserted. When something is inserted, the vaginal canal opens and adjusts to that particular size. If a woman can feel aroused and possibly get off by inserting one of her fingers, I'm pretty sure she can do so with your size of penis. Some women do prefer more pressure, but that's mostly due to girth and not length. A lot of women, in my experience.. Get off more from clitoral stimulation anyway. Although women do enjoy sex and love the feeling of two people acting in such a passionate way... They may not orgasm directly from sex, whether the man has a longer/girthier penis or not. Foreplay can be the big thing for some women. So I wouldn't worry over it too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonny15 Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 Your slightly under average, but not by a lot. Are you equal in girth? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EssexMan Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 Yes there are guys bigger than you, but there are many, many guys your size - you're not in the slightest abnormal. I wouldn't worry about it at all. As Kate and Jonny say, you're only very slightly under the average, to an extent that won't really be noticeable. Porn (and teenage boasting) has given a lot of people unrealistic ideas about what's typical. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Messiah Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 We live in a society that likes to make fun of small penises. It's sad and unfair. The truth is, when it comes to female pleasure, the bulk of the pleasure lies in clitoral stimulation, not so much inner vaginal canal stimulation. Therefore you should be able to please a woman, even without a penis. Just be glad you have one. Date women who are nice and respectful. You don't want to be in the situation where you break up with a girl and have her blame it on "oh he had a small penis" and ridicule you, but if that happens just tell everyone, "No, she just had a large vagina". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nbr Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 you're bigger than me and I've not had a problem. Need any more assurance than that? heh. -nbr Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpottiOtti Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 I second the post about women getting off through clitoral stimulation. More importantly than how big your penis is, can you give good head? That's where it's at, OP. You can learn that, so there's something you can do about it, unlike penis size! Also, your penis doesn't sound that small. Seriously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonny15 Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 you're bigger than me and I've not had a problem. Need any more assurance than that? heh. -nbr He's also bigger than me. So that's two of us. Hope that cheers him up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ayami Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 Nevermind dude its personality that counts and I'm sure you're big inside, which is all that matters. don't obssess about it just have fun with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ForumGuy Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 The only problem I can see is that size restricts the distance you can move. I have had a lot of success with women using very short motions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostnscared Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 It depends on the woman. Some women don't care about size that much, and as long as you can get the job done they don't care. I believe the average is 5-6 inches anyway so you aren't that much off the mark. Like someone said "oral" and clitoral stimulation can substitute sex every now and then if you aren't big enough to get a woman off. That being said, there ARE some women that do care about size. And I have to admit that I'm one of them. Personally I tend to like the 7-8 incher--anything bigger would probably be painful, anything smaller I probably couldn't feel at this point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ayami Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 It depends on the woman. Some women don't care about size that much, and as long as you can get the job done they don't care. I believe the average is 5-6 inches anyway so you aren't that much off the mark. Like someone said "oral" and clitoral stimulation can substitute sex every now and then if you aren't big enough to get a woman off. That being said, there ARE some women that do care about size. And I have to admit that I'm one of them. Personally I tend to like the 7-8 incher--anything bigger would probably be painful, anything smaller I probably couldn't feel at this point. Damn! I just scrape into your favourite size range. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostnscared Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 But I just want to add that most women I know aren't size queens, so you're fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ayami Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 But I just want to add that most women I know aren't size queens, so you're fine. Yeah just because he is smaller than average he will be fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Computer Geek Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 I was significantly older than you and just slightly larger than you (about 5.5) and didn't have issues with my ex when we did it. I didn't tell her she was my first but when I told her she said she kind of suspected it and not to worry about it. She was a great partner and I learned a ton from her, and you know what? She was extremely addicted to sex with me because it was a "perfect fit and curve to hit her spot" -- her words. You don't need to be large, just find someone that it fits well with and be sure to learn how to use it well! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Messiah Posted March 5, 2013 Share Posted March 5, 2013 Oh yeah, I ignored the actual size you said in my original post. I agree with most of the people here, 4.9 aint that bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamurj Posted March 5, 2013 Share Posted March 5, 2013 Hi membo, this topic was discussed here many times. Please use the forum search too find related threads. Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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