chadmylad Posted January 25, 2013 Share Posted January 25, 2013 So I've been broken up with my ex of over 5 years for 3 weeks now. I tried no contact it lasted a week. I asked if we could talk some place and she met me there. We talked and it was dumb of me because it was like ripping a scab off. She said she wanted more time. Anyways I've been trying NC since and she has texted me twice. She texted me the day after the talk to say good luck on a test I was takin that morning and now she texted me this morning happy birthday with a simile face. I know I shouldn't invest too much into it, but it's messing with my head. I told her today I'm trying to respect her wishes and that I need my own space too. She responded like a kid and was like "I was just trying to be nice. Fine I won't say anything at all." I'm not sure what to think. Every step I take I fall back faster. I am gaining interest in other women, but I lost the spark with her last spring but I got it back when I booked a weekend in Hampton beach. It was what I needed. Now the roles are reversed and she breaks up with me. I still love her and always will, but I'm unsure of what to do. She wrote me a note a couple days before the break up saying she wanted to spend the night alone at a friends empty apt. To think about what she can do to get that spark back for her. A couple days later she breaks up with me. I feel like this should be the thing that makes me not want her, but I still do. Any advice? I know the story is all over try to bear with me haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted January 25, 2013 Share Posted January 25, 2013 Tell her that if she wants to reconcile you are willing to talk but if not you need to heal and move on without any contact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chadmylad Posted January 25, 2013 Author Share Posted January 25, 2013 That's pretty much what I did today and then she responded rather childish to me anyways. I think. I had this confidence this morning and then that happened and then I went to meet up with an old friend this morning and she said she saw a picture of her and some guy...I feel like she is stringing me along incase it doesn't work out with this guy. If there is anything between them at all. Just an assumption. I deleted her FB for this reason Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MapleCanuck Posted January 25, 2013 Share Posted January 25, 2013 She sounds so juvenile. Move on. You won't believe how many women are out there. This girl will be drinking alone watching reruns while passing gas as an old maid in no time. Imagine that when she contacts you. Run!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chadmylad Posted January 25, 2013 Author Share Posted January 25, 2013 I already had a girl in sights but then this. Got a little bummed but I'm good right now. Going to my sanctuary (the gym) feeling great right now. This girl works there Hopi.g she's there now. I guess I am more or less over her just every no and again I get a little bummed out. You guys are great. I just needed the extra support. I have really only had one useful source through this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chadmylad Posted January 25, 2013 Author Share Posted January 25, 2013 It's funny you say she sounds juvenile because she was like "I feel like we are both growing up" but maybe it was just me that was growing up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chadmylad Posted January 26, 2013 Author Share Posted January 26, 2013 Apparently I wasn't as hung up on her as much as I thought. She is already with someone and a mutual friend of our who is her best friend even questions what the hell she is doing. When he's gone I won't come back as blink 182 so finely puts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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