hungryhippo Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 Its not your fault at all, those bastards just say that because they are up in the head. You are not dirty or anything that man said. You are the innocent one and you did not deseve any of it, you are completely innocent. It doesnt matter what you are wearing at all, those evil bastards dont care they just prey on innocent people, because they are evil pple. Just keep trying to call, it will get easier the more you try, hang in there, you are very brave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hungryhippo Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 and those people on kidshelpline are volunteers, so they want to help you and you can take all the time you need, they want to listen to you and dont mind waiting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naecha Posted November 3, 2004 Author Share Posted November 3, 2004 i went to report it..like everyone said. But when I walked in and the lady asked if there was anything she could do for me, i froze, there was this guy sitting there who gave me the weirdest look. so i apologised and said no and walked out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tea Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 Don't do anything to hurt yourself okay? If it's too hard take a little break. I wish you can take some pictures of yourself or see a doctor to collect semen sample from him, but that might be too late now. Hopefully you kept your clothes. Without evidence they cannot put him on file and reporting won't do you any good. =X Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naecha Posted November 3, 2004 Author Share Posted November 3, 2004 well then i seriously stuffed up!! i threw the clothes off the wharf... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hungryhippo Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 but just remember they want to help you, and dont worry about the clothes, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hungryhippo Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 doesnt matter if you dont have the clothes, there is still a point in reporting even without evidence, so they know that a rapist is out there, especially in a small town like yours Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
asdf Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 i went to report it..like everyone said. But when I walked in and the lady asked if there was anything she could do for me, i froze, there was this guy sitting there who gave me the weirdest look. so i apologised and said no and walked out. that's very brave, you're on the first step go and actually seek help now. report it to the police. trust me, in the future, you'll look back and remember how scared you were, but how you still faced your fears. you're not dirty. the person who raped you was evil. and i personally think you should tell the police. you don't want him to still be safe out there. he could target you or any other girls again. if you go to the police, they will give you protection. these are people who will help you. i know it's hard to trust people right now, but try anyway. if you can't, i can't blame you, but at least try. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naecha Posted November 3, 2004 Author Share Posted November 3, 2004 yeah but there is a really big possibility that he isn't from our town because there isn't anyone who would do that here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naecha Posted November 3, 2004 Author Share Posted November 3, 2004 i really do want to report it..but im too psychologically weak! and sometimes i laugh to cover what I'm actually feeling and if I do that when I'm telling the police what happened they're gonna think i made it all up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hungryhippo Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 tell them that then, that your scared. you are not weak at all! You are very brave to ask help from us considering what you have been through Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naecha Posted November 3, 2004 Author Share Posted November 3, 2004 i came and told you guys on here because i cam remain anonymous... and you can't see the terror and all of that on my face! you can't see how much terror i'm in at the moment. it's so much easier than being in person when i tell someone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hungryhippo Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 it is still brave though even though it is annnonymous, to talk about it, and its only natrual to be scared. and it will probably take some time to report it, just take your own time when you are ready Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naecha Posted November 3, 2004 Author Share Posted November 3, 2004 yeah but being anonymous is so much easier! i wrote an email to a friend in LA explaining everything and he said that i should go in..he even offered to fly here to be with me.. but i said no and that i'll be allright on my own. i really hate lieing to him! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hungryhippo Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 let him help you, he must really care for you if he wants to fly here to be with you! it is really hard to deal with on your own and he would be good support Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naecha Posted November 3, 2004 Author Share Posted November 3, 2004 my parents would kill me if they knew he flew here to see me! i know he cares and everything but i've never met him before! we just met online about 2 years ago..we've talked on the phone and our relationship is nothing other than friends but i really don't want him to go through all that trouble for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hungryhippo Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 but he must want to if he offered it. just dont tell them he is there to see you. just say he is visiting relatives or is on a holiday? have you tried talking to your aunty again? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naecha Posted November 3, 2004 Author Share Posted November 3, 2004 it costs too much money for someone i've never met to fly over here to meet me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naecha Posted November 3, 2004 Author Share Posted November 3, 2004 umm no I haven't tried her again..I'll probably try again tomorrow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hungryhippo Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 good idea, maybe you can ask her to go with you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naecha Posted November 3, 2004 Author Share Posted November 3, 2004 she's in vic, i'm in nt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naecha Posted November 3, 2004 Author Share Posted November 3, 2004 we're 6 or 7 hours by plane away from each other Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hungryhippo Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 maybe just talk to her then and she will know what to do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naecha Posted November 3, 2004 Author Share Posted November 3, 2004 she's different though..she's not like my parents.. she absolutely petrified of my parents.. i know she'd tell me to fly down to be with her..but i can't leave here.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hungryhippo Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 just talk to her tomorrow so you have someone close to you to talk about it. I have to go now, my sister needs to use the computer but good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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