Vanilla Posted November 2, 2004 Share Posted November 2, 2004 lol sounds like fun. you should tell him you'd like it if he initiated sex a little more, that it would make you feel like he really wants you. have you already maybe? my boyfriend initiates sex a little more often, but he loves it when i do it first. boys will be boys Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sasha12 Posted November 2, 2004 Author Share Posted November 2, 2004 yes well I think before he met me he had a boring sex life . LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanilla Posted November 2, 2004 Share Posted November 2, 2004 could very well be. good for you for spicing it up for him!!! maybe he's just shy too or maybe his girlfriend of before didnt like sex as much as you. Im sure your rockin his world hehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moe42 Posted November 3, 2004 Share Posted November 3, 2004 well i know this is going to sound stupid comin from a 15 year old who is pretty innocent and has only had sex 2 times and that was this weekend.(no im not loose or anything we've been dating for 10 months & ive known him for 4 years im actually very conservitive) Personally i wouldnt strip for my bf but thats mainly cause i am not to comfortable with my body im self conscious of my chest... but i believe that if you feel that your up to it and its the right thing to do and that youll be comfortable with it GO FOR IT you only live once and you should enjoy the time you have even if you make a mistake here and their enjoy life and live it to the fullest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sasha12 Posted November 16, 2004 Author Share Posted November 16, 2004 I still haven't been able to do a strip tease for my bf, I'm so nervous.I keep chickening out and he really wants me to do this. I keep thinking he won't like the way I look or something. I feel so stupid! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanilla Posted November 16, 2004 Share Posted November 16, 2004 sasha i used to feel just like you did. i used to never want to get on top of him at the beginning because i was so self conscience i didnt want him having that full frontal peak at me. however, one day, i decided, what the hell let me get on top and who cares if something jiggles or bounces....it was like he had seen heavens gates open infront of his eyes. Good lord he was the happiest and horniest i'd ever seen him. When you are taking your clothes off for your man or letting him see you in a sexual way (remember how visual men are) they're not thinking "oh she could work on that tummy, or hmm those are some thunder thighs"...they are thinking "i have the sexiest girflreidn in this entire world, she is so hot!" i know its hard for us to believe that because we spend half of our time figuring out which body parts need more work or how our butts could be tighter and why our boobs arnt bigger/perkier/smaller/bouncier, etc etc. trust me if he didnt find you wildly sexy he would not be turned on by you. My boyfriend gets hard just by me kissing him, or even when he hugs me...sometimes even when he's laying next to me i'll notice he's hard and i'll ask him where did that come from and he'll say "im that attracted to you" lol so trust me, if you turn him on and HE wants YOU to strip for him (cause he could be going to strip clubs for this and he isnt!) i say give it to him, and spice things up! you may be stuck with him wanting more and more, but the main thing is he'll want more of you and that is all that matters![/i] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sasha12 Posted November 16, 2004 Author Share Posted November 16, 2004 thanks I have been having a hard time with my relationship and I want to spice things up. thankyou! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ForAnother Posted November 16, 2004 Share Posted November 16, 2004 Interesting all you say that you would. My gf wouldn't do it I don't think...even if I asked. I ahve playfully and she said no... playfully... soo i don't understand how so many of you say yes.. ForAnother Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sasha12 Posted November 17, 2004 Author Share Posted November 17, 2004 ForAnother I guess it depends alot on the girl and how experienced she is. For me it takes alot of confidence. I want to to do a little strip tease for my bf but I'm afraid he won't find me attractive. Alot of girls are very modest with there body even if they want to please there bf . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetGemini Posted November 17, 2004 Share Posted November 17, 2004 remember this should be for fun, dont take it too seriously, its so much fun trust me... and u feel so sexy too... especially when u see him getting excited... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanilla Posted November 17, 2004 Share Posted November 17, 2004 For Another its all about her confidence and how sexy she can really feel during intimacy. I hate strip clubs and dont like porn at all, so I make sure things are kept spicy and hot all the time with my man. I love doing a little strip tease for him every now and then, its really nice to know that my body and my sensuality can have such an overpowering effect on my boyfriend, its really a satisfying experience for me...to know that he finds me so desirable after almost 2 yrs together, he hardly can control himself around me. lol your girlfriend may have different views and opinions on it, while some like watching porn to spice the bedroom live up i would never ever even consider it. so everyones got their little things they enjoy doing during sex,before sex, etc. I love foreplay, stripping for him, anything that makes it last longer and makes it more intense. I am very intune with my sexual side of what I truly like and makes me feel sexy. Everyone is different, so chances are there are plenty woman out there who wouldnt even consider stripping for their man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
latina07 Posted March 18, 2006 Share Posted March 18, 2006 no, im shy myself!!!! i've done it once, when i was really drunk and for some reason i felt sexy and my ex bf seemed to like it, i am actually planning on doing another one for my new bf. but he is jamaican and he dances reggae pretty nice and has seen jamaican exotic dancers so it's kind of hard for me cause even though im a latina i don't really know how to shake it like them. lol!!! help two ladies out !!! so we can make our men happy.!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xprincessbugx Posted March 18, 2006 Share Posted March 18, 2006 I don't think I'd be able to do it. I think I'd be already uncomfortable being in the lingerie let alone having to do a little strip tease. Maybe it's just me but I don't think that I would Everyone's different though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kitz Posted March 19, 2006 Share Posted March 19, 2006 Hey, if I was getting a free lingerie set out of it -- i'd definatley do it!! LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shyanne Posted March 20, 2006 Share Posted March 20, 2006 18 years with my husband and he never asked that question nor did i ever suggest it... i guess it could be fun to try if your really comfortable with who your with.. i love to dance but never tried dancing that way... it would probably be more funny then a turn on for him...unless i practiced before hand.. sexually, i've lived a pretty sheltered life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shyanne Posted March 20, 2006 Share Posted March 20, 2006 well this is going to sound really stupid and it doesn't make any sense at all. But I use to model lingerie for Frederick's of Hollywood a long time ago and the thing is I modeled in front of a large crowd but I can't do it in front of my bf . Does that make any sense? not stupid, i've modeled lingerie for a bunch of ladies once but would never in front of a bunch of men, i'm a bit shy that way... but i would be able to if i was really comfortable with who i'm with. maybe you haven't been dating your boyfriend that long.. i think once you get to know him well and your very comfortable, you would be fine with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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