Sexychiick16 Posted October 31, 2004 Share Posted October 31, 2004 I cant seem to control my dreams lately almost every week and weekend i have a dream about my ex boyfriend. I cant seem to stop, does anyone know how to control your dreams? Sorry this is a dumb question but i serously need help! since this summer ive been trying to just completely forget about him , and in reality i dont think that hard about it but in my dreams he everywhere i turn. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trishcollins Posted October 31, 2004 Share Posted October 31, 2004 I am sure this has to do with the thread I just posted in the breaking up forum -- the dream survey. I am not sure how you stop dreaming about them. Dreams can be so real and so powerful. I think they are a combination day-to-day things and deep thoughts we keep hidden inside. They come out at night when we least expect them. Like I said in my post, I have always had very negative dreams about my previous exes. However, with my current ex, it's been positive, which is someone alarming, and certainly not helping me get over him any faster. Perhaps others can share their thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lady00 Posted October 31, 2004 Share Posted October 31, 2004 Do you think of him before you go to bed? I have noticed that if I think of something a lot right before I go to bed, I often dream of that exact thing. Try to think of something that you wouldn't mind dreaming about before you go to bed. That might help. Also, you might just have to wait for some time in order for the dreams to go away on their own. As you heal, the dreams will probably subside. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sexychiick16 Posted November 5, 2004 Author Share Posted November 5, 2004 ha ha! thanks for the advice ...I dont even know what i think about before i go to bed...i just fall asleep quite quick usually. Sometimes ill be a wake to prey before falling asleep , but i NEVER pray about my ex , but i do prey that he has a good life and that i might find my one and only someday soon..olol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trishcollins Posted November 6, 2004 Share Posted November 6, 2004 I am watching too much Seinfeld. I had a dream I was dating him I rarely dream about my "ex". Aside from the four dreams in four months -- nothing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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