Dont know what I should do.

[Josh G.]

ok heres the dilema, I really like this girl, if uve read my previous posts i know how bad and the one im talking about, but i can never talk to her and and i think i have given up all hope on her and i dont think it is possible for me to go out with her anymore. Now there is another girl that i have some feelings for, and i know she likes me alot, i could ask her out anywhere anyway anytime and shed do it, but I feel so sick over the other girl i want her so bad and I dont know if i should just go out with this girl who likes me. The problem is, I feel really bad about it though, is that i would be so mad at myself if when i was going out with this other girl, i had a chance with the girl i really love, I have a feeling I would dump her for this other girl but i would feel so bad. Any opinions on what i should do I dont know anymore. Sorry if this is confusing.

[Protex]

Sounds to me like this other girl will become your rebound.

[Alabama]

I would try to get over the girl you like now, and go for the one that has feelings for you!

[fridolyn]

that's funny!!! You're 19, Im 33. And I have exactly the same problem. I know this is confusing. What have I decided to do? Take my time and my heart will tell me where to go! It might be long though!!

[Josh G.]

Ok, I made my decision, I asked the other girl out to go bowling this weekend, so were gonna go on a double date kind of thing. Thanks for the advice.