larajenkins4 Posted September 12, 2004 Share Posted September 12, 2004 This is gonna sound a little weird, but i am in love with my teacher, and i know this is not meant to happen rele, but i am, and people say he feels the same, but i dont know. what could happen if it did happen? will it ever happen? it really hurts to think we will never be together. please help. lara Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avman Posted September 12, 2004 Share Posted September 12, 2004 Depends on how old he is, the age of consent laws where you live, and the policy of the school. Most schools prohibit it completely. Most laws prohibit it when the student is under 18. Plus the greater the age gap, the more problems you will have with your relationship and with people accepting it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
larajenkins4 Posted September 12, 2004 Author Share Posted September 12, 2004 i'm 16, and hes 35. we get on really well, and he sees it too. i dont think my family would accept it, but my friends already have, and they support me, but if my family loved me, they would support me wouldnt they? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avman Posted September 12, 2004 Share Posted September 12, 2004 I don't know. I'm afraid I can't answer for your family. Families can be funny about things like this. And at your age, your teacher would be in huge trouble at the school if he got involved with you. He almost certainly would lose his job. And depending on the laws there, any sexual contact between you two could land him in prison. I really don't think this is a good idea. It's normal to crush on a teacher. But I urge you not to pursue anything with this man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
larajenkins4 Posted September 12, 2004 Author Share Posted September 12, 2004 i know this may sound silly, but what if i waited? even after i had left would it be ok? i have only 2 years left back at that school, i go back into 6th form tomorrow. maybe i could see how it goes in those 2 years? do you think he wud be in trouble after i had left? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avman Posted September 12, 2004 Share Posted September 12, 2004 After you've left and turn 18 - then he likely would not get into trouble. My guess though is that you will feel very different about him in 2 years. But who knows, anything can happen in that time period. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
larajenkins4 Posted September 12, 2004 Author Share Posted September 12, 2004 yeah, i guess i will see what happens in 2 years time. i have already liked him for 2 years, so i dont know what could happen in the next time. thanks for replying, you've made me see it in another light. lara Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonnyG Posted September 12, 2004 Share Posted September 12, 2004 Basically Avman sumed it up. U would have to wait til you were over 18 and had left the school, before u could perhaps make a go at a relationship. In those 2 years, much could change. For now u will just have to wait. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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