nafnaf12 Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 Hi guys, I would welcome and greatly appreciate all your valuable advice. I have been dating with an Italian guy who is quite nice and kind. Since he went out with me, he didn't and doesn't know that I was married and seperated from my husband. I didn't tell him because I think we have known for a few months and had sex for several times. What I am confusing now is SHOULD I TELL HIM ALL THE TRUTH since he told me that he likes me as a whole that he misses me when I am not around. Thanks for reading my post. Ella Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raaawr Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 I have been dating with an Italian guy who is quite nice and kind. Since he went out with me, he didn't and doesn't know that I was married and seperated from my husband. I dont know if this constitutes as not talking about the ex. Should he know? Yeah. But should he know the second he meets you? I dont think so. I didn't tell him because I think we have known for a few months and had sex for several times. What do you mean "I think we have known"? What I am confusing now is SHOULD I TELL HIM ALL THE TRUTH since he told me that he likes me as a whole that he misses me when I am not around. Relationships are built on openness and honesty. If I was the guy in this and so long as I didnt feel like you were purposely hiding it from me I would understand and be ok with it with a little reassurance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nafnaf12 Posted December 13, 2011 Author Share Posted December 13, 2011 Thanks for your posts guys. At first I though that the relationship with the guy is more like a causual relationship, friends with benefits but after a few months, 4 months exactly, we feel so much for each other. We have passionate and romantic sex and kisses. He took me to a concert, to dinners and texts me 3 times a day at least. His vocation requires him to behave well in a certain way, it also means that he can't have a relationship with a seperated woman, not completely divorced I mean. If I tell him now, He may be scared, that is not what I want and expect. But I don't want to be a lair either. What should i do. In fact this guy is very diplomatic and nice. I don't know if he wants a longterm relationship with me or just he is trying to be nice. So, I think I will wait until he tells me that he wants a longterm relationship with me, I will then tell him all the truth that I'm seperated and that I have children. Is that fair, guys/ Please help me, I really dont know what to do... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nafnaf12 Posted December 13, 2011 Author Share Posted December 13, 2011 Thanks for your posts guys. At first I though that the relationship with the guy is more like a causual relationship, friends with benefits but after a few months, 4 months exactly, we feel so much for each other. We have passionate and romantic sex and kisses. He took me to a concert, to dinners and texts me 3 times a day at least. His vocation requires him to behave well in a certain way, it also means that he can't have a relationship with a seperated woman, not completely divorced I mean. If I tell him now, He may be scared, that is not what I want and expect. But I don't want to be a lair either. What should i do. In fact this guy is very diplomatic and nice. I don't know if he wants a longterm relationship with me or just he is trying to be nice. So, I think I will wait until he tells me that he wants a longterm relationship with me, I will then tell him all the truth that I'm seperated and that I have children. Is that fair, guys/ Please help me, I really dont know what to do... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.