flyerfan6656 Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 i have been healing, and its been going pretty good..i have my ups, and downs, but i think in the end ill be alright but i was wondering...last time i talked to my ex..i ended things on my terms...she always wanted to be my friend, but i just said..."im falling back".... sometimes i wonder if she will hit me up, but its prob because im not 100% healed....lets just say a year from now...i decide to txt her or w.e( not caring about the outcome)..would that still show weakness on my part?, or since since so much time has past, would that even matter? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sim54 Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 is it important that you don't appear weak? If so, why? Is weakness a bad thing? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eocsor Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 After a years time, IF(and thats a big if) you want to try and reconnect give her a shout. By that time, if you maintained NC, it won't matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mephisto13 Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 Weakness is talking to her when you're NC. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flyerfan6656 Posted December 9, 2011 Author Share Posted December 9, 2011 After a years time, IF(and thats a big if) . what do you mean by.."Big IF" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
calichick007 Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 If you stick to NC, you probably won't even feel the urge in a year. I know it seems impossible now, but it's true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eocsor Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 what do you mean by.."Big IF" As has been said, in a year from now, she probably won't matter that much anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick Lansing Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 Shoot for NC for a year, then contact her if you want to. By then your feelings will almost certainly be a lot different. After 6-8 months, you won't be worrying about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flyerfan6656 Posted December 9, 2011 Author Share Posted December 9, 2011 thanks for the advice, but nobody really answered my question... if i were to contact her in a year.. as a dumper, would she think im weak or needy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flyerfan6656 Posted December 9, 2011 Author Share Posted December 9, 2011 shes the dumber im the dumpeee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angler Posted December 9, 2011 Share Posted December 9, 2011 thanks for the advice, but nobody really answered my question... if i were to contact her in a year.. as a dumper, would she think im weak or needy? Pretty sure Eocsor answered your question in post #3. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flyerfan6656 Posted December 9, 2011 Author Share Posted December 9, 2011 Pretty sure Eocsor answered your question in post #3. o wow..he def did lol..i didnt read it all the way Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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