Adelaide2008 Posted December 6, 2011 Share Posted December 6, 2011 Hi i have been in a long term relationship and my partner doesn't work due to medical condition. so i work full time while it stays at home. he is on his computer all day and chats to other women online. there is one for whom he has got feelings for and she does too. she is aware he has a partner. he has been very honest with me about this but he still chats to her even in the Evening and night when i am here. he said he just wants friendship as he knows an affair is not practical but he said there wasn't much left in our relationship and it doesn't want to spend time with me as i don't make him feel the same way that this younger girl. i am grateful he is telling me but it hurts and i hate him talking to her when i am home. he thinks it is unreasonable and still does talk to her. is it really unreasonable to ask him not to chat to her when i am here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Obvious Posted December 6, 2011 Share Posted December 6, 2011 Chatting to this other girl shows he has no respect for you. Its not friendship, he is having an emotional affair. If you think its unreasonable, which many people would think it is, why are you accepting it and staying with this person? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guynextdoor Posted December 6, 2011 Share Posted December 6, 2011 I'm not sure why you are sticking around for. He's honest yes but its an emotional affair, leave him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oldenoughtoknow Posted December 6, 2011 Share Posted December 6, 2011 Are you being unreasonable? That's your question? He's being honest, alright. There isn't much left in your relationship. He doesn't want to spend time with you. You don't make him feel the same way. He's having an emotional affair and is trying to push you into breaking up with him so he can live his fantasy. I'd let him have it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wheelerdealer Posted December 6, 2011 Share Posted December 6, 2011 Yeah this is ridiculous. Didnt even have to click into this full thread to see that you should leave.... Regardless of his honesty you shouldnt put up with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Day_Walker Posted December 6, 2011 Share Posted December 6, 2011 I think that you are being unreasonable because you are choosing to be in a relationship with a person who doesnt respect you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
agent1607307371 Posted December 6, 2011 Share Posted December 6, 2011 as he knows an affair is not practical Why are you paying for him and why are you still with him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liraele Posted December 8, 2011 Share Posted December 8, 2011 Does anyone else find it amusing that she initially referred to him as "it"? Might be your subconscious is telling you something, honey. Why are you staying with him, really? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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