mg22 Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 MY ex dumped me 5 months ago, dated someone right away, they have broken up.., our ending was quite nasty, fights, etc. i have the urge to call him and just say hello, we were together for 5 years.. i need to know this for myself,how he will react to my call ! pls need help! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meowmix88 Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 Do you have a friend you can call instead? You did the right thing by posting here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Furbys Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 Don't call him. It will not do you any good. And look at the timing, him and his gf split up he will think your doing it to rub it in his face or take advantage. Don't do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mg22 Posted December 1, 2011 Author Share Posted December 1, 2011 My friends tell me i should ! iam confused !! i just called him the phone went straight to voicemail ! i think he may be happy to hear from me, we shared so many fond memories........ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Furbys Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 Put your phone away and forget what you just did. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mg22 Posted December 1, 2011 Author Share Posted December 1, 2011 Furbys, he dosent know that i knew about his GF, o whatever they were... he dated her for 2 months ! so it will be a surprise, i would not say anything about her, i would call just to see how he is etc.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meowmix88 Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 What would be the reason to contact him? Do you want to get back together or do you just want to talk to him for talking's sake? Being that his relationship just ended, it's a tricky time. You do not want to be a rebound. Let it cool for a bit, sleep on it for a night or two. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mg22 Posted December 1, 2011 Author Share Posted December 1, 2011 they broke up weeks ago, this has been in my mind for days already ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hodgeheg Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 I think this is a bad time to ring him, he'll be feeling vulnerable and maybe not able to give you what you want. Do you really want to be a shoulder to cry on while he talks about his rebound girl? Personally, I wouldn't want that for myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meowmix88 Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 How do you know so much about what he is doing if you've been NC? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mg22 Posted December 1, 2011 Author Share Posted December 1, 2011 iam sure he would not mention her to me ! maybe she was the one that got tired of hearing of me ! i think shes has been spooking around in my FB , Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Furbys Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 Shes been looking at your fb? Well you have been looking at his too. I think you need to leave it, yes you may want to talk to him but he probably isn't up to it. Did you leave him a message, if you did what did you say? You may think that he doesnt know you know, but he knows you can access his fb and you conveniently contacted him, so hes probably aware that you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mg22 Posted December 1, 2011 Author Share Posted December 1, 2011 i didnt leave a message i hung up, i think hes phone was shut off ! iam really tempted ! what harm will it do?? just hurt me if he ignores me thats all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eocsor Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 Yeah, go for it. You can be the rebound to the rebound. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Furbys Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 What harm will it do? It could annoy him, it could push him away, it could make him ignore you, it could push him back to her. You have to leave him alone, respect the fact that he has finished a relationship and he doesn't need an ex calling him up, he needs time to himself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mg22 Posted December 1, 2011 Author Share Posted December 1, 2011 yes your right Furbys., but i think she didnt mean much to him like i did @ 2 months versus 5 years............ big difference Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mg22 Posted December 1, 2011 Author Share Posted December 1, 2011 lol ecosor, its not about that, just miss him and want to see how he is........... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Furbys Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 You may think she didn't mean much, but she may of to him. Of course you don't want to hear that but its the truth. Its not necessarily the amount of time together its the quality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mg22 Posted December 1, 2011 Author Share Posted December 1, 2011 what if i call let it ring then hang up?? no message, and if he calls me back tell him it was a mistake?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Furbys Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 No, there is no need to play games. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mg22 Posted December 1, 2011 Author Share Posted December 1, 2011 he always did !!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Furbys Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 It doesn't matter if he did, If you do it you will be just as bad as him. Leave him alone he needs time to himself. You will only regret messing with him if you call him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mg22 Posted December 1, 2011 Author Share Posted December 1, 2011 guess what?? i called him answered right away ! he was so happy to hear from me ! he said he wanted so bad to call me for thanksgiving, he asked if we could see eatchother !!omg iam happy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Furbys Posted December 1, 2011 Share Posted December 1, 2011 Be careful. You can be a rebound for him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mg22 Posted December 1, 2011 Author Share Posted December 1, 2011 i hope not!!! she was the rebound not me !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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