blueyedblonde Posted November 26, 2011 Share Posted November 26, 2011 Ok, it has not been much. Very minimal.. but I dont get it anyway. He went from talking to me (calling, texing) to telling me to leave him alone & he doesnt want to be with me. Don't get me wrong.. I still believe him to an extent to say it. Even if he came back now, I would be his option?? And we're told "Never make someone a priority, when you are only their option." But still, I did something I havent often done with him. I went NC after he said those things. (that was 3 weeks ago now) Four days ago he text me asking if I am going to get something I have at his house (I have had it there since July. Its not in the way and he had told me it can stay there, awhile ago.) But, I took that text to be that he just doesnt want to look at it. (btw, I would get it if I could right now. I cant. it's my broken down car and I have no where to keep it until I can get it fixed.) But, because it was about my property, I had to answer. I told him I am working on it and then left it at that. Afterward, thinking it "might have been a reason for him to contact me, but still was probably just him not wanting to look at it any longer" so, I couldnt read too much into it. But then two days ago, he sent me a text. "Happy Thanksgiving". I didnt respond. To this one, I cant understand (other than he is sick). To wish a person a happy anything after you tell them you want them to go away and dont want to be with them (when they, me , have told you they care etc) makes no sense to me. He said mean, curt things. Then to reach out with that?? I understand it was only a text. That's why I have not responded. That text is contact from the ex, but not enough to make me think he cares that much. I had said ALL I could when we were talking. I exhausted every avenue. Everything had been said...where he knew I cared and wanted to spend time with him. He resisted it. Told me to go away. Leave him alone. So finally, I did and give him what he wanted. I was also doing it to begin to heal, even though I do miss him. But, I wanted him to see me because he wanted to. He wasnt going out of his way. Now, the mentality to act that way with me, but even wish me a happy anything... doesnt make sense to me. Sure, it is what I wanted.... but not enough to jump on like it means the world. He would have to do a whole hell of a lot more to show me. What do you think?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
waterlilly Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 can you block his number or change yours. i just went and read previous posts....This guy is awful. Bad news. Terrible. RUN> Don't ever contact him again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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