ann1e Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 sooo my ex and my "friend" are still basically together... i want to show my ex that two can play at that game. should i hook up with one of his best friends? I want to show him that I could get someone too but at the same time i dont want to just because i dont want to be classified as a * * * * and/or hurt him... please help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
camus154 Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 Come on, now. You already know the answer to this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 Do you really want to stoop to his level, and be placed in the same category? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ann1e Posted November 22, 2011 Author Share Posted November 22, 2011 but people are telling me to do it... i know that sounds stupid but my ex is seriously being a butt, im just so mad at him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Furbys Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 And what is that going to achieve? People will see you in the same negative light and you wont feel any better about yourself. Don't do it and show him that you can be mature. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ann1e Posted November 22, 2011 Author Share Posted November 22, 2011 ok, i think that's what i'll do! im gonna kill them with kindness... thank yall! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lanaa Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 if you like his friend,do it because you like him if you want revenge, don't do it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liraele Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 You should never use someone just to further your own agenda - and revenge is rarely, if ever, a "good" agenda in the first place. What would you think of someone like that? Would you want to be associated with them? What if this guy had feelings for you? I'm glad it looks like you are taking people's advice and not doing anything just to get even. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Awoken Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 Agree. Don't do it. You are not only setting yourself up for more 'issues' it's not fair on the guy you are using. Good choice not to do it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RastaPasta Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 Stop focusing on what he is doing and start thinking about what you want. Don't bring another person into your game, you will only end up hurting them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toby17 Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 hmmm This is one of your ex's best friends? And the guy's willing? Is he just looking for a hook up or more? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ann1e Posted November 23, 2011 Author Share Posted November 23, 2011 this is one of his good friends and we have history together Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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