igo Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 So, We have been sending big messages back and forth for the last week. Several texts / photo texts too. I just had a good 1hr 15min phone call with her yesterday. We both have a ton in common and we both seem intrested in meeting. So, I am thinking about flying over in January if we still have good communication. The question is, "Am I crazy/ Is she crazy"? This seems like a most crazy idea! This is the first time I have ever considered meeting someone this way. Thoughts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sidehop Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 I'd say be realistic; if either of you have the option to move in the near future anything is possible Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sadchick83 Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 Ohhh....just do it. My sister just got engaged to a guy she met at a bar in London, England. She lives in NYC. You never know what can happen. They've known each other for about a year and a half....never went more than 3 weeks without seeing each other. Life is too short-- I say Go for it!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
igo Posted November 21, 2011 Author Share Posted November 21, 2011 That is basically the same thing we both said. "you only live once!" Worst case is I go to Portland have a great time and then never see her again... which doesn't sound bad at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huntress0527 Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 My husband was 600+ miles away from me when we met which of course was online. As long as one of you is willing to move if it becomes serious then go for it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
igo Posted November 21, 2011 Author Share Posted November 21, 2011 So, we are panning to have are first webcam chat soon. Well, I will keep you guys posted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ksenia Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 you should look at where you are in your lives and if you'll be able to keep a long distance relationship going. I have to say its harder then you'd expect. Also, you have to think about if either of you will be able to make a compromise to move to the other at some point in the future. If theres a chance that you can see it working out, reasonably, not just in a dreamy version where she wins the lottery and you both live in a hawaii happily ever after, then go for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
igo Posted November 28, 2011 Author Share Posted November 28, 2011 We had a 1hr 15min phone call last week but, only a 15min call today. We are still have ok communication but, things aren't looking as good as they were a week ago (now that both of our heads have cleared). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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