dasilva045 Posted November 22, 2011 Author Share Posted November 22, 2011 So how should I proceed from here then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dabbledave Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 Resume NiC. You've proven to yourself you can do it. If she is really wants to get back together she will contact you again. However, she'll also contact you again if she simply misses your company, so be careful what you assume. DD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dasilva045 Posted November 23, 2011 Author Share Posted November 23, 2011 There's one thing that really bothered her and she said made her fall out of love. She was invovled in a serious accident and instead of supporting her I took out my anger on her by yelling at her and I felt terrible after I did it and she won't forgive me for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Darcy Posted November 23, 2011 Share Posted November 23, 2011 Sometimes there is just too much water under the bridge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick Lansing Posted November 23, 2011 Share Posted November 23, 2011 I would definitely play it cool. I think it's ok to initiate contact but I'd keep it simple and brief. I don't think you should be talking about the relationship unless she brings it up, and even then I wouldn't say much. Just tell her, "I'm just trying to live in the moment right now, I'm not thinking that far ahead." or words to that effect. She misses you and has feelings for you, but you could blow this if it gets too heavy with the relationship talk. Take it slowly, no expectations. As someone else here put it, show her you've changed but don't tell her about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dasilva045 Posted November 23, 2011 Author Share Posted November 23, 2011 I just know right now she doesn't want to miss out on going out and doing things she wants to do. She told me the day she left she doesnt want to wake up one day and regret not going out and goiing out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dasilva045 Posted November 27, 2011 Author Share Posted November 27, 2011 So a quick update. We've been hanging out like once a week and it's been pretty good so far. We really haven't talked about the relationship but when we do it's all good memories and makes us both smile . We have not kissed yet and I'm proud of that because it might just make it worse. We hug each other when we leave each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Darcy Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 Keep doing what you are doing so long as you are happy. If you are fine with just hanging then keep at it for a while. Good luck to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dasilva045 Posted November 28, 2011 Author Share Posted November 28, 2011 Do i push to hang out more or just leave it as it is? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhowe Posted November 28, 2011 Share Posted November 28, 2011 You are not in a relationship with her ----she broke up w/ you. You are just hanging out -- and if you push it, she will back off. Read your thread from the beginning --- I think you are just filler until she finds someone to date. Sorry to say --- if you go away, she might find that she misses you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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