Feel cheap...anything to be gained from telling him or just leave it?

[Batya33]

I understand that you feel that you need sex badly enough that you're willing to settle for casual sex - I wouldn't make that choice (yes even if it had a been a year, or years) but I respect that you and I are different! Now I understand that you are ok with settling for casual sex if the alternative is to abstain. So, if you're ok with it then why feel cheap?