gabriellagorey Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Is it strange for my boyfriend to add everyone I know on fb? This probably wouldn't bother me as much if in the beginning of our relationship he wasn't going through my phone and email. Actually to this day if I'm on my phone he has to come up behind me and look at what I'm doing. I feel as if he does it to keep tabs on me and that REALLY pushes my buttons. Though, he tells me he just wants more friends even though he has a substantial amount in real life AND online. Why do you think he's doing this? Should I care...and if not how the hell do I stop caring so much? ugh Damn internet...v.v I'm a very private person and want that to be respected even by my significant other ya know? Link to comment
stuka80 Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 lmao! stuff like that is pretty funny! and yea he's definitely keeping tabs on you Link to comment
metrogirl Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Personally I would find it creepy if my boyfriend needed to be friends with everyone Iknow on facebook and I would be equally peeved if he was always watching me on the phone. Sounds like he doesn't trust you much. Link to comment
MadxMythMadame Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Personally I would find it creepy if my boyfriend needed to be friends with everyone Iknow on facebook and I would be equally peeved if he was always watching me on the phone. Sounds like he doesn't trust you much. I highly agree. You're two separate people first. Talk about it with him - if he gets all defensive, then there must be something a little deeper than just him stalking you. He probably have had some bad relationships and might have a hard time trusting. Or he's creepy. Link to comment
gabriellagorey Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 Just tried to talk to him about it. He gets on the defense about it. But I finally got him to admit that yes, he is keeping tabs on me. I know he has trust issues due to being cheated on before however, I have too but I have the ability to respect his privacy. It's really making me reconsider his marriage proposal. How can I spend the rest of my life with someone who can't even trust me!? Thoroughly annoyed, though happy I found this forum. It's really nice to talk it out. Link to comment
Jd1983 Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Yes, it's strange that he's trying to add everyone you know. I think it really boils down to the lack of trust. Have you told him that this bothers you? How long have you been together? Link to comment
gabriellagorey Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 It's been a year now and I've told him about this already. He shows no sign of stopping. Link to comment
mouseno4 Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Do you give him reason to distrust you? Link to comment
gabriellagorey Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 Nope, I'm a very loyal girlfriend. Link to comment
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